ON SWEAT: Triggers, Colors, and Gender

Sweat—we all do it. Indeed, humans are the sweatiest of all animals. And there’s a lot more to sweating than feeling damp!

For one thing, it’s everywhere!

Japanese warriors perspired so much that their helmets came with drain holes (ase nagashi no ana) under the chin guard.

Humans have 2 to 4 million sweat glands distributed—except for ears, lips, and nails—all over the body, with higher concentrations in some places, like the palms, forehead, and armpits. Your feet alone have 250,000 sweat glands, more than on your back.

A “normal” person sweats about 275 gallons each year. This is enough to fill the gas tanks of three mid-size SUVs.

  • There are two types of sweat glands: eccrine and apocrine. Eccrine glands are found all over the body and produce a watery fluid, while apocrine glands are located in hairy areas (think groin) and produce a thicker, milky fluid.
  • About 99% of sweat is water, with the remaining 1% consisting of salts, proteins, and other substances.

Your Sweaty Friend

One might say sweat is the body’s best friend!

  • Sweating helps regulate body temperature. When the liquid on your skin evaporates, transforming from a liquid into a gas, it takes some heat from the blood right under your skin with it. Cooler blood cools us down.
  • Stress, anxiety, and excitement can activate sweat glands, leading to what is commonly known as “nervous sweat.”
  • Though not its primary function, sweating can help expel small amounts of waste products like urea and ammonia.
  • Unfortunately, mosquitoes, along with many other insects, are attracted to human perspiration. Insects need the sodium in salt, just like the rest of us, and our salty perspiration has what they need.

Surprising Sweat

Sweat has characteristics and roles that many people might not be aware of.

  • Sweat itself doesn’t smell. Perspiration dripping from your forehead and arms after a run is mostly odorless. The odor associated with sweating comes from bacteria breaking down the liquid on the skin’s surface.
  • Online sources are divided on whether men sweat more than women, but there is agreement that women have more sweat glands than men. Men start sweating sooner when physically active. One possibility is that the amount of perspiration is mediated by the size and shape of the body.
  • But women and men smell different. “Researchers asked 60 volunteers to squeeze cotton gauze in their unwashed hands for 10 minutes, then analysed the chemical profile of the volatile organic compounds (mainly derived from sweat) that make up a person’s scent. They were able to distinguish gender with 97% accuracy.”
  • Women often experience hot flashes and increased sweating during menopause. Similar symptoms are also possible in men, because their testosterone level drops with age.
  • Fitter individuals tend to start sweating sooner and more profusely than those who are less fit, because their bodies are more efficient at cooling down.

Sweaty Revelations

Sweat tells a lot about you.

  • Darker, more concentrated perspiration can be a sign of dehydration.
  • When a person sweats excessively, even when not hot or exercising, it may signal a medical condition called hyperhidrosis. An estimated 360 million people worldwide suffer from extreme sweating.
  • Recurring night sweats can be caused by several other health conditions—besides menopause and hyperhidrosis: hormone disorders, an infection, or side effects from certain medications.
  • Just like fingerprints, the composition of a person’s sweat is unique and can be used for biometric identification.
  • People might tend to bond more quickly when they have similar odor profiles.
  • Some foods increase sweating, include spicy foods like chili peppers, caffeinated beverages, alcohol, salt, meat, and many processed foods (especially the fat-filled ones).
  • Profuse sweating after eating, especially on only one side of the face, may be a sign of Frey’s Syndrome and might require medical treatment.
  • Fearful sweat is chemically different. Dogs and some humans can smell the difference.
  • Vegetarians have better smelling perspiration, according to one study. Women judged the sweat smell of non-meat eating and carnivorous men. The results: the vegetarian men had more attractive smelling sweat.
  • A genetic variation means that some people (mostly people of Asian descent) do not produce body odor, no matter how sweaty they get.

Odd Sweat

Sweat has some quirky aspects, too.

  • Sweat doesn’t drip off without gravity, so “astronauts wear special underwear on their spacewalks; it’s filled with cooling tubes that whisk the heat away. One bonus in the controlled environment of a space station: Any extra moisture from sweat that does get into the air is sucked up by the ventilation system and recycled into fresh water for the astronauts to drink.”
  • Chromhidrosis” is a rare condition that causes colored perspiration, which can be yellow, green, blue, or even black.
  • Humans can sweat blood if they have a rare condition called Hematohidrosis. Capillary blood vessels that feed the sweat glands rupture, causing them to discharge blood. It occurs when the affected person is under extreme physical or emotional stress. This condition is so rare, only a handful of cases have ever been recorded.
  • Research from the Karolinska Institute in Stockholm suggests that sniffing sweat from strangers might help alleviate social anxiety.
  • The artificial sweat industry provides a variety of “sweats” depending on what it is needed for. Clothing, shoe, jewelry, musical instruments, and phone and tablet manufacturers all need to know how saltiness and pH (sweat is slightly acidic) affect their products. Forensic laboratories need a different blend for creating control fingerprints, whatever those might be.

Cultural Sweat

Sweat has played a role in various cultures and historical contexts.

Osho Inipi Sweat Lodge
  • Athletes in Ancent Greece scraped sweat, oil, and dirt off their skin after training at gymnasiums. This residue, gloios, was used to treat everything from skin ailments to joint inflammation.
  • Saunas are such an important part of Finnish culture that there are more saunas than people, including one attached to the Parliament building!
  • Several Native American communities, including the Lakota and the Maya, practice sweat lodge rituals. These steam baths are part of purification ceremonies and spiritual practices.
  • In some cultures, people view sweating as a sign of hard work and dedication. For example, in Japan, the phrase “sweat of one’s brow” is a compliment indicating diligence.
  • The “sweat of the brow” doctrine is an element of copyright law. It means that a creator has earned copyright control over their work by virtue of the effort expended to make it.

Useful Sweat

Sweat has contemporary uses.

  • Sweat sensors can monitor health metrics like hydration levels, glucose, and electrolyte balance.
  • Athletes use sweat analysis to optimize performance. By studying their sweat composition, they can tailor their hydration and nutrition strategies.
  • Because sweat is in part sourced from the liquid parts of blood, it’s packed with information: testing sweat can detect the presence of caffeine, alcohol, cocaine – or even spicy tomato snacks.
  • Sweat patches are sometimes used to monitor substance use over time.

Sweaty Interactions

Sweat also interacts with our surroundings.

  • When sweat evaporates, it absorbs heat from the skin, which can slightly cool the surrounding air.
  • The acids in sweat can alter the pH of materials it comes into contact with, such as clothing, mousepads, and musical instruments.
  • The salts in sweat can cause metals to corrode faster, which is why gym equipment and electronics often have protective coatings.

Mythical Sweat

Sweat myths debunked.

Healthy Sweat

Sweat plays a significant role in personal hygiene and health.

Bottom Line: Sweat isn’t just a sign of a good workout or a hot day; it plays a crucial role in our body’s ability to regulate temperature and maintain overall health.

THE IMPORTANCE OF HAIR!

What people notice first is the visual appearance of head hair. Indeed, I wrote a whole blog about head hair (Hairy Issues, May 27, 2025). But hair is much more than grooming!

Cultural and Social Importance

Identity and Expression: Hair is a powerful tool for self-expression. Hairstyles, colors, and length often reflect personal identity, cultural heritage, and social status. Hair length and cut often signal biological sex.

(photo) Laetitia Ky, a hair artist from Cote d’Ivoire

Symbolism

Rastafarians wear their hair long to symbolize their connection to the Biblical Samson.

Hair can symbolize various traits across cultures.

Freedom and Rebellion: Long, uncut hair often signifies a desire for freedom (e.g., hippie movement) or spiritual devotion (e.g., sadhus in India).

Religion and Spirituality: In many cultures, hair holds spiritual significance. Sikhs do not cut their hair as a sign of respect for God’s creation. Buddhist monks and nuns shave their heads to symbolize detachment from worldly desires. At least 14 religions have requirements or “recommendations” about hair length, style, and/or covering.

Rituals and Rites of Passage: Haircuts or hairstyles mark significant life events (e.g., first haircut in some cultures, mourning practices where the bereaved cut their hair or leave it uncut).

Social Status and Profession: Hairstyles can indicate profession (e.g., military buzz cuts) or social rank (e.g., elaborate hairstyles in royalty or aristocracy).

Biology and Health

What comes next to mind probably relates to temperature, for example hair up (pony tail, etc.) off the neck in hot weather.

Thermoregulation: Hair helps regulate body temperature by trapping heat close to the skin in cold conditions and aiding in sweat evaporation in hot conditions. We don’t often think about it, but scalp hair may help stabilize brain temperature.

Protection: Hair on the scalp protects the head from UV radiation and minor injuries. Tightly curled hair provides more protection from solar radiation (which is particularly strong around the Equator) than straight hair. Eyebrows and eyelashes shield the eyes from sweat, dust, and other debris.

Sensory Functions: Hair follicles connect to nerve endings, making them sensitive to touch, temperature, pain, and fear.

Indicator of Health: Changes in hair texture, thickness, or loss can signal nutritional deficiencies, hormonal imbalances, stress, autoimmune diseases, or underlying health conditions (e.g., thyroid disorders, alopecia). Hair is also used to assess exposure to substances.

Age: Pattern baldness and hair loss frequently advance with age. Ditto hair color/pigmentation loss.

Economic and Industrial Importance

Beauty and Cosmetics Industry: Hair care is a major source of profit in the beauty industry, from such products as shampoos, conditioners, dyes, and styling tools. The global hair care market is valued at billions of dollars annually.

Wigs and Extensions: Wig makers highly prize human hair for wigs, extensions, and hairpieces for cosmetic purposes, especially for cancer patients.

Textiles and Materials: Animal hair (e.g., wool, cashmere) is used in textiles, but human hair is also repurposed in some industries (e.g., for making felt).

Recycling and Sustainability

Human hair is increasingly recycled for environmental purposes.

Oil Spill Cleanup: Hair absorbs oil, making it useful for cleaning up environmental disasters.

Fertilizer and Compost: Hair decomposes slowly and adds nitrogen to compost.

Art and Crafts: Particularly creative people up-cycle human hair into jewelry, sculptures, or other art projects.

Environmental Impact

Biodegradability: Unlike synthetic fibers, human hair is biodegradable, reducing microplastic pollution when discarded. However, it takes several years to break down, so large amounts of it can still cause volume problems.

Waste Reduction: Recycling hair diverts waste from landfills and reduces the environmental footprint of industries like beauty and fashion.

Scientific Hair Uses

Forensic Uses

DNA Analysis: Forensic investigators can use hair to identify individuals or determine ancestry.

Toxicology: Hair analysis can detect drug use, poisoning, or exposure to certain chemicals over time.

Historical and Archaeological Insights

Reconstruction of Ötzi

Hair can survive for thousands of years under the right conditions, providing insights into ancient diets, health, and lifestyles (e.g., analysis of Ötzi the Iceman’s hair).

Psychological and Emotional Significance

Self-Esteem and Confidence: Hair can significantly impact self-image and confidence. Hair loss or changes in hair health can affect mental well-being.

Memory and Sentiment: People often preserve locks of hair as keepsakes (e.g., baby’s first haircut, memorial locks) to commemorate loved ones or significant life events.

Ethical and Compassionate Considerations

Animal Welfare: Using human hair instead of animal-derived materials (e.g., fur) can align with ethical and compassionate values.

Sustainability: Supporting businesses that recycle or up-cycle hair contributes to a circular economy and reduces environmental harm.

Controversies and Challenges

Exploitation: The hair industry has faced criticism for exploitative practices, such as unethical sourcing of human hair without fair compensation (e.g., from underprivileged communities).

Cultural Appropriation: Hairstyles rooted in specific cultures are sometimes adopted without acknowledgment or respect, leading to debates about cultural appropriation vs. appreciation.

Targeted Regulations: Many organizations adopt grooming standards that ban hairstyles disproportionately used by members of a particular ethnic, racial, or cultural group.


Health Risks: Poor hair care practices or excessive use of chemical treatments can damage hair and pose health risks (e.g., scalp irritation, chemical burns).

Sustainable Alternatives and Innovations

Hair Recycling Programs: Organizations like Hair We Share and Locks of Love collect donated hair to make wigs for those in need. Hair must be at least 10 inches long, measured tip to tip, to be used in a hairpiece. Some organizations accept shorter donations, which they might sell to offset costs or repurpose for environmental projects. Many salons participate in programs that collect waste hair for recycling.

Biotechnology: Scientists are exploring lab-grown hair follicles as a sustainable alternative for medical and cosmetic uses.

Vegan and Cruelty-Free Products: Many brands now offer plant-based or synthetic alternatives to human hair in wigs and extensions.

Bottom Line: Hair is important in virtually every aspect of people’s lives—culture, biology, even environmental sustainability.

YOU’RE EATING WHAT?

If you are considering eating cockroaches, don’t microwave them! They are so fatty that they explode in the microwave. You just don’t want the mess.

Which is not to say you shouldn’t eat them. According to the EntoMove Project, the cockroach nutritional profile, per mg/100g, (3.53 oz) is 19 g protein, 10 g fat, calcium 38, iron14, zinc 32, potassium 224, niacin 44, magnesium 50, B12 237 mcg.

You might be surprised to learn that the U.S. is listed among countries where cockroaches are either a common or semi-common ingredient in the country’s cuisine or they are offered in at least some restaurants, possibly as a novelty. Other countries include China, Mexico, Japan, and Thailand. (For the Love of Chocolate in Carytown, VA offers scorpion lollipops and ant candy!)

Current research on this topic is non-comprehensive. It is likely that insects are a regular part of the diet in countries not listed above particularly in South America, Africa, and southern Asia. Many traditional cuisines are often more accepting of the idea of insects as a protein source.

And it isn’t just cockroaches. In many cultures around the world, insects are a traditional and nutritious part of the diet. This practice, called entomophagy, is common in regions where insects are abundant, sustainable, and rich in protein, healthy fats, vitamins, and minerals. Here are some cultures and regions where eating bugs is more common.

Latin America

chapulines insects
Chapulines in Mexico

Mexico: Insects like chapulines (grasshoppers), escamoles (ant larvae), and gusanos de maguey (maguey worm) are popular, especially in Oaxaca and central Mexico. Cooks often toast chapulines with chili and lime and serve them as snacks or added to tacos.

Colombia: Hormigas culonas (big-bottomed ants) are a delicacy, particularly in Santander. People often toast them to eat as a crunchy snack.

Brazil: In the Amazon, indigenous communities eat tucum (palm weevil larvae) and suri (palm beetle larvae).

Southeast Asia

Cambodian fried tarantula insects
Cambodian fried tarantulas

Thailand: In markets and street food stalls, you can find insects like crickets, silkworm pupae, water beetles, and bamboo worms. They are often fried or roasted and seasoned with spices.

Laos: Khao tom mat (ant egg soup) and deep-fried insects are common snacks.

Vietnam: Cricket and silkworm dishes are popular, often stir-fried or used in soups.

Cambodia: Fried tarantulas and water beetles often serve as snacks.

Myanmar: Many cooks include beetle larvae and ants in salads or soups.

Africa

South Africa: The mopane worm (a caterpillar) is dried or canned and eaten as a protein-rich food.

Zimbabwe and Zambia: Madora (larvae of the mopane moth) are a traditional food source.

Congo: Roasted or boiled palm weevil larvae and termites are a popular ingredient and snack.

Palm weevil larva farmer, displaying their stock

Nigeria: In some regions, rising livestock feed prices are leading people to raise palm weevil larvae and grasshopper as alternatives to chickens and cattle.

Australia and Oceania

Indigenous Australians: Traditionally ate honey ants, witchetty grubs (larvae of cossid moths), and bardi grubs (larvae of palm weevils). People most often eat these raw or only lightly cooked.

Dora Napaljarri Kitson, hunting for Witchetty grubs (Ed Gold)

Papua New Guinea: Sago grubs (larvae of the sago palm weevil) are a delicacy, often eaten raw or roasted.

East Asia

Inago and hachinoko

China: In many provinces, including Yunnan and Guangxi, people eat insects like silkworm pupae, cricket, bee larvae, and water beetles. Cooks often stir-fry them or use them in soups.

Japan: Inago (grasshoppers) and hachinoko (bee larvae) are traditional foods, often boiled in soy sauce.

South Korea: Beondegi (silkworm pupae) is a popular street food, steamed or boiled and seasoned with spices.

Middle East

Oman and Yemen: During swarms, locusts and desert locusts make a very handy addition to many dishes, often roasted or fried.

Why Do These Cultures Eat Bugs?

Fried insect vendor in Thailand

Nutritional Benefits: Insects are high in protein, healthy fats, fiber, vitamins (like B12), and minerals (like iron and zinc).

Sustainability: Insects require far less land, water, and feed compared to traditional livestock, making them an eco-friendly protein source.

Cultural Tradition: In many regions, eating insects is a long-standing practice tied to local ecosystems and food security.

Availability: Insects are often abundant in tropical and subtropical regions, making them a reliable food source.

In many cultures, insects are recognized/consumed for their medicinal as well as nutritional properties.

Bottom Line: Are you open to exotic and beneficial foods?

YOU GOTTA HAVE HEART

For one thing, you can’t live without it! Fortunately, it’s a hard worker. It beats over 100,000 times per day, pumping about 1.5 gallons of blood every minute. (Over the course of a day, that adds up to over 2,000 gallons.) The right side of your heart pumps blood into your lungs. The left side of your heart pumps blood back through your body, delivering that oxygen to cells. Other than the cornea, every cell in the human body gets blood from the heart. There are 60,000 miles of blood vessels in your body—enough to go around the world twice—in order to reach all those cells. Strong as it is, things can go awry. Heart disease is the number 1 cause of death in the United States.

Metaphors of the Heart

Even without understanding the biology, the heart has taken its place at the heart of human culture.

Take language, for example. Think metaphors. Those involving the heart quickly and efficiently convey whole worlds of meaning.

Richard the Lion Heart
King Richard the Lion Hearted of England

The heart of the matter
A heart of gold
Heart of stone
Cold hearted (or warm hearted)
Heart of a lion/lion hearted
Take heart
Heartless
Wearing one’s heart on one’s heart sleeve
Heart ruling your head
Heart and soul
Pour out your heart
Set your heart on something
Speak from the heart
Break your heart/broken hearted
Win someone’s heart
To have a big heart
The heart of the city

Yes, such metaphors are very useful in spoken discourse. If you use them in writing, however…cliché.

Hearts in Song

There are approximately a gazillion songs involving hearts. Those that come easily to my mind include:

“Total Eclipse of the Heart”
(RIP, Bonnie Tyler)

Heart Over Mind
Heartbreak Hotel
Sergeant Pepper’s Lonely Heart’s Club Band
Your Cheatin’ Heart
Heart and Soul
You Gotta Have Heart

But if you want to really get into it, search online: you will find lists of 20, 50, 100 songs with hearts in the title.

You can also find similar lists of poems.

Heart Symbolism

The usefulness of heart in such ways owes much to the symbolism. A heart is one of the most universally recognized symbols, carrying deep emotional, spiritual, and cultural meanings across history and societies. Here are some of its most common symbolic interpretations:

What could be more romantic than an anatomically accurate heart necklace?

Love and Romance

  • The heart is most strongly associated with love, both romantic and unconditional.
  • It represents passion, desire, and emotional connection.
  • In Western culture, people often use the heart symbol (❤️) to express affection, attraction, or deep care for someone or something.

Life and Vitality

  • Historically, the heart was seen as the center of life and soul in many ancient cultures.
  • In Egyptian and Greek traditions, the heart was believed to be the seat of the soul, emotions, and intelligence.
  • The phrase “follow your heart” suggests trusting your instincts and inner wisdom.
Anahata, the heart chakra

Compassion and Kindness

  • A heart symbolizes compassion, empathy, and kindness.
  • Acts of charity or volunteerism are often described as “giving from the heart.”
  • The heart chakra in Hindu and Buddhist traditions represents love, healing, and spiritual connection.

Courage and Strength

  • The phrase “a lion-hearted person” refers to someone who is brave and strong.
  • In medieval times, the heart was a symbol of heroism and valor.

Health and Healing

  • The heart is a medical symbol for health, vitality, and the circulatory system.
  • It represents resilience and recovery, especially in contexts like heart disease awareness (e.g., the red dress symbol for heart health).

Spiritual and Mystical Meanings

  • In Christianity, the heart symbolizes faith, devotion, and the divine love of God.
  • The Sacred Heart of Jesus is a prominent symbol in Catholic iconography, representing divine love and mercy.
  • In Taoism, the heart is seen as the center of balance, harmony, and inner peace.
  • The Egyptians believed a person’s deeds, good and bad, resided in their heart, which would be tested after death to determine their afterlife.

Unity and Connection

  • Two intertwined hearts often symbolize unity, partnership, or marriage.
  • The heart can also represent global unity, as seen in movements like “We Are the World” or environmental campaigns.

Transformation and Growth

  • The heart is a symbol of personal growth, healing, and renewal.
  • It represents the idea that love and pain can lead to transformation.

Nature and the Earth

  • The heart shape appears in natural forms like leaves, seeds, and rivers, symbolizing nature’s nurturing power.
  • It is often used in eco-friendly and sustainability movements to represent care for the planet.

Art and Creativity

  • The heart is a universal motif in art, literature, and music, representing beauty, emotion, and human experience.

Cultural Variations

  • In China, the heart is associated with the idea of “xin” (心), which encompasses both the physical heart and the mind, representing thought and emotion.
  • In some Native American traditions, the heart is a symbol of truth, sincerity, and harmony with nature.
  • In Japanese culture, the heart (“kokoro” or “shin” 心) represents the core of one’s being.

Modern Uses

  • Emojis: The heart emoji (❤️) is used globally to express love, friendship, or appreciation.
  • Tattoos: Heart tattoos often symbolize love, loss, or remembrance.
  • Brands and Logos: Many companies use the heart symbol to convey care, trust, and emotional connection (e.g., healthcare, non-profits, and food brands).

Some heart information is (in my mind) interesting but not obviously important.

For example, the average heartbeat of a woman is about 8 beats a minute faster than a man’s heartbeat.

Other information can raise red flags about stress and danger. For example, the most heart attacks occur each year on Christmas Day. The day after Christmas and New Year’s Day are close behind. More heart attacks happen on a Monday than any other day of the week. The more you know….

Bottom Line: Hearts are important physically, metaphorically, and symbolically.

OUR QUIRKY BODIES

A few days ago, I noticed that my right leg is bigger than my left: thighs, knee, calf, top to bottom. The only surprise here is that—having lived in this body for decades—I hadn’t noticed this sooner.

I’m right-handed (along with 85-90% of people worldwide), and I noticed early on that the fingers on my right hand are longer than on the left, and every time I buy shoes, I’m reminded that my right foot is bigger than the left. My right hand and arm are stronger than the left as well. I assumed that these things all go together.

Wrong!

Athletic Unevenness

It turns out that such definite “right-sidedness” is because I am not athletic! According to research, for people who play sports, even right handers have bigger left legs. Whether a layup, a pitch, or throwing a ball, the primary plant leg is going to be the left. According to what I read, amateur to professional, almost every right handed athlete has a stronger left leg. (The same is true of right-handers who do weight-training.)

Just for the heck of it, I asked (step-grandson) Cash about his handedness and thigh size. He’s over 6’5” tall and a great basketball player, although only a high school junior. He’s right-handed and reported that, previously unnoticed, indeed his left leg is bigger, even at the young age of 17.

On the other hand, handedness is usually related to eye dominance. True to expectation, my right eye is dominant. (If you don’t know which is your dominant eye, and want to, consider which eye you tend to use for one-eye tasks such as a viewing through a telescope or aiming a rifle.)

On the third hand, eye dominance is not related to the strength of vision in each eye but rather to the brain’s preference for processing visual information from one eye over the other. In my case, my left eye has better vision.

A yoga-teaching friend of mine noted that slight differences in leg length are common. In the extreme, this is related to scoliosis. But even less extreme cases are reflected in hip flexibility.

Facial Asymmetry

Facial symmetry bodies

Size, strength, and vision aren’t the only asymmetries in our bodies. Most of us don’t typically consider that our faces aren’t symmetrical, but it’s so. Bilateral features in the face, such as left and right eyes, ears, and lips, often show some asymmetry.

Decades ago, a classic psychology experiment determined that if photographs are manipulated to produce pictures of symmetrical faces made from two left sides or two right sides, people always, and easily, chose one photo as more attractive. Conclusion: people really do have “a better side”!

In general, symmetry is more pleasing than asymmetry. In my face, the most noticeable differences are more hairs in my right eyebrow and deeper wrinkles on the left side. I trust the former is noticeable only to me, but the latter is obvious. I attribute it to sleeping on my left side from as far back as I can remember until I had breast surgery for cancer in 2014.

Asymmetry bodies

Body variations in symmetry is often observed in wrists, breasts, testicles, and thighs. I already mentioned my right thigh. My right wrist is bigger, as was my right breast prior to 2014.

Fortunately I am relatively symmetrical, in spite of all the exceptions I’ve admitted to. That is to say, no one looking at me would think “lopsided.”

I say fortunately because research has found multiple factors that are associated with symmetry. It can indicate developmental stability, and also suggest genetic fitness. This can further have an effect on mate attraction and sexual selection! Physical health is also associated with greater symmetry. According to Wikipedia, multiple other factors can be linked to asymmetry, such as intelligence and personality traits.

Asymmetrical bodies are common and usually harmless, often due to genetics, posture, natural aging, and—as noted above—exercise.

Muscle Memory

Muscle Memory bodies
Years of practice allow most bodies to walk without thinking about the mechanics

Thinking about repetitive movement as it relates to body asymmetry (thigh size and athletic movements, as I already mentioned) led me to think of muscle memory. Muscle memory is moving in a particular way without thinking about it. This type of memory comes from repetition or practice—doing the same task over and over in the same way. Many movements involved with bathing, playing an instrument, eating, driving, dancing, etc., rely on muscle memory.

Along with all this other self-examination, I’ve been considering what I think of as my personal muscle habits. The first thing that came to mind is that on a frequent walk from my house, about 200 steps along, I climb a set of three steps. I happened to notice that, regardless of whether I’m strolling or hurrying, I always ascend the first step with my right foot first. Having noted that, I checked: I always mount stairs right foot first.

Similarly, I always put pants on right leg first. I virtually always put dangle earrings on left ear first, whereas stud earrings are right ear first.

My house is dotted with area rugs, and the fringe is scuffed in the same place on each rug, testimony to an habitual gait—or possibly habitual foot-dragging!

Why write a blog about my lopsided body? Because your body is probably asymmetrical, too. Think about it!

Bottom Line: If you focus on your body, it might surprise you!

BETTER KNOW YOUR BODY

I originally posted this blog entry in July 2024, “Better Know Your Body” but so much information deserves a second look!

Everybody has one. But how much do you really know about it?

Skin

Let’s start with your largest and most visible organ: skin. When it comes to skin, we tend to notice attractiveness, color, roughness, and wrinkles. But skin is functional as well as ornamental. It keeps everything on the inside from coming out. In addition, it also helps keep us at the right temperature, helps us with touch and sensation, allows us to move without restriction (not too tight or too loose), heals and regenerates constantly, and much more.

You probably aren’t average, but these “average” data will give you an idea of how you compare.

Skin by the Numbers

If you are average, your skin weighs 6-9 or 7.5-22 pounds, depending on your source. According to the NIH Library of Medicine, skin makes up approximately 1/7 of your body weight.

Again, if you are average, you have approximately 21 square feet of skin.

Organ donation can include skin.

The average person has about 300 million skin cells. One square inch of skin has about 19 million cells.

Every second, you produce 25 million cells.

The entire surface of your skin is replaced every month, which put another way means you have about 1,000 different skins in your life! This skin renewal every 27-28 days involves sloughing off the old.

Your skin constantly sheds dead cells, about 30,000 to 40,000 cells every minute! (That’s nearly 9 lbs. per year. On the low end, other sources say you slough off roughly 1.5 pounds of dead skin a year, equal to about 3 ½ cups of sugar.)

Dead skin comprises about a billion tons of dust in the earth’s atmosphere. Indoors, the oil on dead skin cells helps to remove ozone, leaving the air cleaner!

Some sources estimate that more than half of household dust is actually dead skin, others say 70%, but much depends on number of people, pets, etc.

Passengers

Your skin is home to more than 1,000 species of bacteria.

Your face is host to bugs (demodex folliculorum) too tiny to see. Hairlines, eye sockets, and lashes are favorite hiding places. If they get out of control, they can cause skin problems or eye infections.

About 2,400 germs call the belly button home. The average person has 67 different species of bacteria in their belly button.

Weird Skin

Scar tissue is different from normal skin because it lacks hair and sweat glands.

Some of the nerves in your skin are connected to muscles instead of the brain, sending signals (through the spinal cord) to react more quickly to heat, pain, etc.

The color of human skin is determined by the level of pigment melanin that the body produces. Those with small amounts of melanin have light skin while those with large amounts have dark skin.

Genital skin is darker than other skin: nipples, anus, and genitals are more sensitive to sex hormones acting on melanocytes. The contrast increases during puberty and pregnancy.

Your skin has at least five different types of receptors that respond to pain and touch.

Blood and Heart

Your skin contains more than 11 miles of blood vessels.

Your blood makes up about eight percent of your body weight.

Laid end to end, an adult’s blood vessels are between 9,000 and 19,000 kilometers long! This includes veins, arteries, and communicating little capillaries that move between both.

Pus is a build-up of white blood cells.

Humans are the only species known to blush.

Your heart beats around 100000 times a day, 36500000 times a year and over a billion times if you live beyond 30.

Inside your bones are tiny tubes filled with blood vessels called osteons. They are to bones what rings are to trees.  The percentage of large osteons increases with age.

Your eyes blink around 20 times a minute. That’s over ten million times a year!

Sweat

The body has 2.5 million sweat pores.

A single square inch of skin has up to 300 sweat glands.

When you’re too hot—or you lose your cool—your nerves send signals to open millions of glands, allowing sweat to flow. It pools by your armpits, palms, feet, head, and private parts.

Earwax is actually a type of sweat! A recessive gene can cause earwax to be dry and flaky rather than viscous and sticky.

Germs love to swim, so they thrive in sweat. Sweat on its own doesn’t smell bad. It’s the bacteria that mix with it.

Body Products

Your mouth produces about one-two liters of saliva each day!

You produce about 40,000 liters of spit in your lifetime. Or to put it another way, enough spit to fill around five hundred bathtubs.

Babies don’t shed tears until they’re at least one month old.

What we eat directly affects urine and feces. For example, you might notice red or pink after bingeing on beets. Or changes in your urine after eating asparagus.
(Note: although asparagus affects the chemistry of everyone’s urine, some people are able to smell it and others aren’t—whether their own or someone else’s.)

We urinate enough every month to fill a bath!

The average nose produces about a cupful of nasal mucus every day.

On average, you fart enough in one day to fill a party balloon.

Brain and Nervous System

Your brain is the fattiest organ in the body, approximately 60% by dry weight. It needs essential fatty acids to perform adequately.

The brain uses over a quarter of the oxygen used by the human body.

Your brain is sometimes more active when you’re asleep than when you’re awake. Humans have a stage of sleep that features rapid eye movement (REM). REM sleep makes up around 25% of total sleep time and is often when you have your most vivid dreams.

Information zooms along nerves at about 400k mph!

Everyone is familiar with forgetting, but additionally, our brain re-writes memories each time we think of them, slowly altering or twisting them over time.

Muscles

The word “muscle” comes from Latin term meaning “little mouse“, which is what Ancient Romans thought flexed bicep muscles resembled.

Your heart is the only muscle that doesn’t get tired.

Gluteus maximus is the Latin name for the largest muscle in your body, your behind. You have two of them, one for each cheek. These powerful muscles serve as a cushion when you sit down, but when flexed tight, they keep you upright.

Few muscles are as hard-working as the tongue. By day, it twists to form the sounds you speak and pushes around the food you eat. While you sleep, your tongue moves saliva down your throat. 

The strongest muscle in the human body is the jaw (masseter). A healthy jaw can close teeth with a force of up to 200 pounds, according to the Library of Congress.

Eyes

Your eyes can get sunburned. The symptoms include headache, eye pain and redness, tearing, blurred vision, twitching, and feeling gritty. Sunglasses can prevent sunburn, and symptoms typically resolve themselves after 48 hours.

Your eye is your fastest muscle. The orbicularis oculi is capable of contracting in less than 1/100th of a second.

A blink typically can last 100-150 milliseconds.

Infants blink only once or twice a minute while adults average around 10.

Women blink 19 times per minute compared to 11 per minute for men. This may relate to estrogen levels, which can make the cornea more elastic, changing how light waves travel through the eye.

You blink more when talking and less when you are reading. This is why you get tired when reading.

Only two percent of the population have green eyes. The largest concentration of green-eyed peoples is in Ireland, Scotland, and Northern Europe. All races (Asian, African, Caucasian, Pacific Islanders, Arabic, Hispanic, and the indigenous peoples of the Americas) can have green eyes.

All babies are born with blue or brown eyes. Green eyes can take between six months and three years to appear in children.

By three months, our eyes are the same size that they will ever be as the corneas have reached their full width. Human eyes grow rapidly in the womb and for the first three months after birth.

GI Tract

Your sense of smell is around 10000 times more sensitive than your sense of taste.

As well as having unique fingerprints, humans also have unique tongue prints.

It takes the body around 12 hours to completely digest eaten food.

When meds are to be taken “on an empty stomach” that means an hour before or two hours after eating.

You can’t breathe and swallow simultaneously.

On average, your intestines are 25 feet long from end to end. Your small intestine is over 20 feet. And while your large intestine is wider around, it’s only about 5 feet in length.

Your intestines are always moving, a continuous wavy motion called peristalsis. Or when vomiting, reverse-peristalsis.

Stomach acid can melt metal—at least certain metals, such as zinc. Digestive juices in the gut contain hydrochloric acid. They rank just below battery acid on the pH scale.

Your Asymmetrical Body

The two sides of your face are not alike. If you take a photo of your face and divide it down the middle, then replicate each half, the faces look different enough for people to judge one face better looking than the other!

One side of your body is bigger than the other, with bigger hand and foot.

Your left lung is about 10 percent smaller than your right one.

Almost everyone is stronger and more dexterous on one side of their body than the other. Research indicates somewhere between 85% and 90% of the population is right-handed; almost everyone else favors their left hand. Only about 1% of the population is naturally ambidextrous, but it is possible to train one’s non-dominant side to greater strength and ability.

Body Bits and Pieces

All humans share about 99.9% of our DNA with other humans. For comparison, we share 98% with pigs, and 60% with bananas! (thednatests.com)

The extra skin on your elbow, known scientifically as olecranal skin or colloquially at the weenus, is basically nature’s Silly Puddy because there are fewer sensory neurons located there. That means you can keep kneading it all day long, and as hard as you want.

Adult lungs have a surface area of around 70 square meters!

Human teeth are almost as hard as opal. Diamonds have a hardness of 10; teeth are at 5.

You are about 1cm taller in the morning when you first get up than when you go to bed. This is because during the day the soft cartilage between your bones gets squashed and compressed.

Some penises “grow” more than 4 centimeters when aroused. I found nothing about any relationship between this and any aspect of sexual functioning.

Vaginas range from 2.7 to 3.1 inches. The depth while aroused ranges from 4.3 to 4.7 inches.

Men are more sensitive to caffeine; women are more sensitive to alcohol.

Your fingernails grow three times faster than toenails, explained by the hands having more blood pumping through them. The fingernails on your dominant hand grow faster. In colder weather, nails grow more slowly.

Health changes, such as pregnancy, vitamin deficiencies, menopause, and trauma can show up in your hair and nails. Your hair stylist or manicurist might know you’re pregnant before you do!

The smallest bone found in the human body is located in the middle ear. The stapes (or stirrup) bone is only 2.8 millimeters long.

Human teeth are just as strong as shark teeth.

Spread across their lifetime, most people spend an average of one whole year sitting on the toilet.

Your nose and ears continue growing throughout your entire life.

More Nose Facts

Scientists estimate that the human nose can recognize a trillion different scents!

During pregnancy, one’s sense of smell improves dramatically, possibly the body’s attempt to avoid exposing the fetus to danger.

A human’s scent also changes during pregnancy. Other humans can’t usually detect it, but pets might!

Our bodies give one nostril a break while the other is active – we just don’t know we do it. We naturally tend to alternate breathing from one nostril then the other, which helps keep the air we breathe moist so as not to irritate our lungs.

Identical twins smell the same. No surprise there!

Aging Body

Every new cell is reproduced from the template of our DNA. Therefore, it’s not surprising that this DNA template gets worn away and errors occur as we age. But the aging body is beyond the scope here!

Bottom Line: Know your body well as a path to taking good care of it!

UBIQUITOUS BLOOD

Blood is so important that it has escaped the confines of the body and pops up everywhere, in symbolism, metaphors, and superstitions.

Fallacies About Blood

In many ancient cultures, where blood was seen as the essence of life—sacrificing blood (animal or human)—was believed to sustain the gods, the land, or the community. In ancient paganism, such sacrifices were offered to gods like Moloch, Aztec deities, or the Greek Fates to ensure fertility, harvests, or protection.

It was once believed that blood was the same as life, and as such, drinking blood was the equivalent of a transfusion today.

In other cultures, the heart was thought to be the blood-fountain and the core of personality, so this drinking of blood was regarded as soul transference.

Ma’at weighing the heart of the deceased against the Feather of Truth, determining a soul’s guilt or innocence in the Egyptian Book of the Dead

Cannibalism, as a tribal rite, was based on a similar belief, that the blood of another was his life and soul. The practice of drinking the blood of the bravest foes was to acquire their courage, cunning, and other distinctive traits.

Royalty and the super rich literally had blue blood. This was based on the fact that those who did not labor in the sun, and therefore weren’t tan, had veins that showed more prominently blue. (Indeed, some creatures have blue blood—e.g., horseshoe crabs—but humans aren’t among them.) Historically, Royal Blood meant that royalty were of divine or pure lineage, untouched by commoners. Bloodlines determined inheritance, legitimacy, and power.

Transfusion bag

People of different races have different blood, and transfusions across ethnic groups are dangerous if not deadly.

In Japan, many people use blood type as a personality predictor, similar to how some Americans ascribe to star signs or Vietnamese believe in a birth year cycle.

A baby gets blood from the mother. In fact, the fetus creates its own blood entirely, in utero.

Bloodletting

Bloodletting in the 1860s

As far back as the Ancient Egyptians, doctors have attempted to treat patients by adjusting fluids inside the body. In particular, medical theories held that sweating and bloodletting were effective treatments for everything from headaches to gout. Hippocrates believed menstruation was a spontaneous form of bloodletting. Talmudic, Ayurvedic, Chinese, and Islamic medical texts all contain detailed instructions of the practice.

Galen created very specific charts of the best locations to cut or place leeches to achieve specific health benefits, encouraging patients to take their “cure” into their own hands! Cutting the vein in the right hand might cure liver problems, while cutting the vein in the left hand could cure spleen trouble.

Diagram of where to bleed for specific health concerns

He also believed that the heart created blood and sent it to the organs and extremities, where it was used up. Having too much would cause it to stagnate, leading to illness. For centuries, doctors throughout Europe and the Middle East thought it purged toxins, balanced bodily chemistry, and boosted immunity.

Bloodletting remained a common medical practice through the 19th Century. Textbooks from 1923 still recommended treating patients with strategic bleeding.

It still shows up in our language. “Bloodletting” is now a euphemism for simmering tensions in a community erupting into violence.

Bloody Language

A subject so entwined with human history and sensibilities is bound to show up in our language.

Blood in Metaphors

Blood feud: People of one bloodline/clan are born enemies of another.

In cold blood: To do something cruel or violent deliberately and without emotion.

Hematohidrosis, a rare medical condition, causes a patient to sweat actual blood.

Blood, sweat, and tears: A lot of effort and hard work, often involving suffering.

Blood runs cold: To feel a sudden shock or horror.

Flesh and blood: Someone’s family or relatives; also used to describe human limitations or weaknesses.

Blood boils: To become extremely angry.

Bad blood: Strong feelings of hatred or anger between people.

New blood: New people joining a group or organization, bringing fresh ideas.

Roman gladiators from a Third Century mosaic

Blood sport: A sport involving the hunting or killing of animals, or a violent competition.

Blood money: Money earned through dishonest or violent means; also refers to money paid to a killer as compensation for a murder.

Bloodcurdling: Extremely frightening or shocking.

Blood brother: A very close friend; historically, mingling a few drops of blood from two people in a cup of wine and both drinking it sealed the bond. More recently, two people nick their thumbs or wrist veins and press them together to seal the bond. (“Brothers” could also be women, though this was much less common.)

Lady Macbeth by Gabriel von Max

Blood on one’s hands (e.g., Lady Macbeth’s famous line, “Out, damned spot!”) symbolizes moral stain or unresolved guilt.

Bloodstained: Covered or marked with blood, often implying violence or guilt.

In one’s blood: innate, as of a skill or quality. The same as “XXX runs in the family.”

Blood is thicker than water: Family relationships are stronger than other relationships.

In some initiation rites (e.g., fraternities, secret societies, or rites of passage), blood may symbolize commitment, loyalty, or rebirth into a new social or spiritual state.

Bloody Proverbs

  • Blood is inherited and virtue is acquired.
  • None so keen at the hunting of wolves as the dog with wolf blood.
  • Who grudges his blood to a blade had better earn his living behind the plow.
  • You cannot get blood from a stone/turnip
  • Good blood will never lie.
  • Men’s skins have many colors, but human blood is always red.
  • Like blood, like means, and like age, make the happiest marriage.
  • Marrying in the blood is never good.
  • Noble and common blood is of the same color.
  • If blood is spilt on you before breakfast, you will shed blood before nightfall.

The human body contains about 5 liters (1.3 gallons) of blood, which circulates through the body 3 times every minute on average! It transports oxygen, nutrients, and hormones, fights infections, regulates body temperature, and removes waste products.

Bottom Line: Blood is so important that it’s everywhere!

ISMS: THEY’RE EVERYWHERE

We’re all aware, at some level, of racism and sexism. Everyone lucky enough to live to be old will probably become aware of ageism. Many fewer are attuned to ableism. The world wasn’t built for people with disabilities, and because of that, the world we live in is inherently “ableist.”

Ableism 101 by Ashley Eisenmenger

-Isms and Stereotyping

All -isms are based on stereotypes. Stereotyping is when, based on one characteristic, we assume a whole constellation of characteristics, traits, abilities, or behaviors. While it can sometimes feel like a mental shortcut to quickly understand the world, it often leads to inaccuracies, misunderstandings, and unfair judgments.

Effects of Stereotyping

THE American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) provides legal assistance for people seeking civil liberties protections.

Bias and Prejudice: Stereotypes can reinforce harmful biases, leading to discrimination or exclusion.
Overgeneralization: It ignoring individual differences.
Self-Fulfilling Prophecies: People may unconsciously act in ways that confirm a stereotype, perpetuating the cycle.
Loss of Individuality: It reduces people to a single label, ignoring their unique identities, experiences, and complexities.

Common Areas Where Stereotyping Occurs

The Southern Poverty Law Center (SPLC) is a legal advocacy organization promoting civil rights in the US.

Gender: Assuming women are “naturally” better at caregiving or men are “naturally” better at leadership.
Race/Ethnicity: Linking certain behaviors or traits to an entire racial or ethnic group.
Professions: Believing all engineers are socially awkward or all artists are “starving.”
Age: Assuming older adults are “out of touch” or teenagers are “irresponsible.”
Cultures: Assuming everyone from a specific country behaves the same way.

Ableism

Returning to focus on ableism, consider the following examples from the source cited above:

Presenting a disability as either tragic or inspirational in news stories, movies, and other popular forms of media

Choosing an inaccessible venue for a meeting or event, thus excluding some participants

Using someone else’s mobility device as a hand or foot rest

Casting a non-disabled actor to play a disabled character in a play, movie, TV show, or commercial

Making a movie that doesn’t have audio description or closed captioning

Using the accessible bathroom stall when you are able to use the non-accessible stall without pain or risk of injury

Wearing scented products in a scent-free environment

Talking to a person with a disability like they are a child, talking about them instead of directly to them, or speaking for them

Asking invasive questions about the medical history or personal life of someone with a disability

Assuming people have to have a visible disability to actually be disabled

Questioning if someone is ‘actually’ disabled, or ‘how much’ they are disabled

Asking, “How did you become disabled?”

All -Isms are Based on Stereotyping

—Isms take many blatant forms. Depending on the specific —ism, these can include:

The Human Rights Campaign is the largest LGBTQ advocacy group in the US, lobbying for protecting and expanding rights.
  • Lack of compliance with laws like the ADA, non discrimination in housing, etc.
  • Segregating students into separate schools or classes
  • Not questioning existing discriminatory standards in medicine, banking, policing, etc.
  • The use of restraint or seclusion as a means of controlling students with disabilities
  • Institutionalizing adults and children with disabilities
  • Failing to incorporate accessibility into building design plans. This applies to disabilities but also such things as gender-neutral bathrooms.
  • Buildings without braille on signs, elevator buttons, etc.
  • Selectively enforcing dress codes
  • Restricting workplace benefits, such as family leave or health insurance, to opposite-sex couples
  • Creating inaccessible websites
  • Entrenching existing prejudices into computer algorithms and coding
  • The assumption that people with disabilities want or need to be ‘fixed’
  • Requiring hairstyles that are difficult or impossible to maintain with certain hair textures
  • Using disability as a punchline, or mocking people with disabilities
  • Conducting research without consideration of differences based on gender, race, abilities, etc. This is especially important in medical research and the creation of public policy.
  • The lynchings of Blacks in earlier decades and eugenics movement of the early 1900s
  • Disproportionate number of guilty verdicts and harsher sentences based on race or ethnicity.
  • The mass murder of disabled people in Nazi Germany
  • Hiring preferences based on the assumption that women will become pregnant and leave the workforce
  • Wage gaps based on sex, race, ethnicity
“Die-Ins” during Black Lives Matter protests drew attention to racialized police violence in the US.

Micro-Aggressions and “Isms”

Micro-aggressions are everyday verbal or behavioral expressions that communicate a negative slight or insult in relation to someone’s gender identity, race, sex, disability, etc. It seems to me that non-conscious put downs of -isms are more common—and more socially acceptable—than others these days.

  • “That’s so lame.”
  • Dumb blonde jokes.
  • “That’s so retarded.”
  • “That guy is crazy.”
  • “You’re so brave to wear that!”
  • “You’re acting so bi-polar today.”
  • Schools defaulting to communicate with a female parent, regardless of a family’s arrangements.
  • “Should you really be eating that?”
  • “Must be that time of the month.”
  • “You’re so gay.”
  • “Are you off your meds?”
  • “It’s like the blind leading the blind.”
  • “It’s fine to be gay, but why do they have to shove it in my face?”
  • “My ideas fell on deaf ears.”
  • Putting hands on someone to guide them to where you want them.
  • “You throw like a girl.”
  • “You look great for your age!”
  • “But which one of you is the woman?”
  • “That’s so psycho.”
  • “I’m super OCD about how I clean my apartment.”
  • Offering to help old people. Sometimes this is appreciated, putting a bag in the overhead bin, for example. But often it comes across as assuming incompetence.
  • “You’re so well-spoken!”
  • “A real man would…”
  • “I’ll pray for you?”
  • Addressing an elderly person as young man or young lady.
  • “Of course he’s paid more; he has a family to support!”
  • “I don’t even think of you as disabled/black/a woman.”
  • “I’m not saying she deserved it, but did you see what she was wearing?”
  • “I love old people; they’re so adorable!”
  • “This sort of thing comes naturally to your people, right?”
  • “Big boys don’t cry.”
  • Touching someone’s hair.
  • “You’re such a spaz.”
  • Witnessing or overhearing any of the above without speaking up.

How to Avoid Stereotyping

The Stonewall Riots kicked off the gay liberation movement in the US, eventually leading to major legal protections and growing social acceptance of LGBTQ+ people.

Challenge Assumptions: Ask yourself why you hold a particular belief about a group.
Seek Diverse Perspectives: Engage with people from different backgrounds to broaden your understanding.
Focus on Individuality: Recognize that everyone is unique and shouldn’t be reduced to a stereotype.
Educate Yourself: Learn about the lived experiences of others rather than relying on stereotypes.
Practice Empathy: Put yourself in someone else’s shoes to understand their perspective.

Bottom Line: -Isms and stereotyping can harm mental health, self-esteem, and social cohesion. Stereotyping can often leads to systemic -isms like racism, sexism, ageism, and other forms of discrimination. Breaking free from stereotypes is essential for creating a fairer, more inclusive world.

APRIL BRINGS SHOWERS; MAY BRINGS…

Celebrations, holidays, and observances! Truly, no one could possibly honor all the special days in May.

Celebratory Days in May

First there are the dailies. Only 31 days in the month, yet there are 486 (!) daily holidays and observances. If you are reading this blog the day it is posted (May 12), 224 of these opportunities have already passed you by for 2026. You are probably aware of Cinco de Mayo and Mother’s Day, maybe even celebrated them. But (probably) missed opportunities include

Beltane Fire on Uisneach Hill in Ireland

Beltane (or Là Bealltainn or Boaltinn or Boaldyn)
Global Love Day
Tuba Day
World Beer Pong Day AND World Naked Gardening Day, both on May 2
Paranormal Day
National Orange Juice Day
National Silence the Shame Day
Great American Grump Out Day
World Asthma Day
National Deaf Interpreter Day
Make a Book Day (Thursday of National Family Reading Week)
World Donkey Day
Mother Ocean Day

And soooo many more. Of course, there’s always next year. It pays to plan ahead (perhaps plant something soft in anticipation of Naked Gardening Day 2027).

All isn’t lost, though. There are 10 opportunities to celebrate just today (May 12) including National Nutty Fudge Day and Limerick Day. My long-time favorite limerick was composed at St Lawrence University during a graduation ceremony—every year there was some faculty challenge during that event—by a member of the Physics Department, Peter Oesper.

Peter Oesper

Try your hand at a limerick and share?

Celebratory Weeks in May

Of curse weekly celebrations and observances abound in May—130, in fact. A couple of things to note about the weekly listings: 1) several of the earliest ones actually started in April; and 2) some are not a full week, just too long to be a daily.

Here are some examples of celebrations for people who don’t want to feel pushed by a one-day limit. Of course—for you, dear reader—some must await next year. These include the 27 weekly observances that are always the first full week in May. And among others

How could you not be kind to this smiling face?

Reading is Fun Week and National Children’s Book Week
Be Kind to Animals Week and National Pet Week
National Anxiety and Depression Awareness Week
National Children’s Mental Health Week
International Clitoris Awareness Week (which should be every week?)
National Wildflower Week
National Raisin Week
Root Canal Appreciation Week (Really? Really.)

But if you jump on it today, you can still celebrate worthy observances: National Nurses Week, and UN Road Safety Week through today; National Hug Holiday Week and World Cocktail Week today and tomorrow (May 13).

Paramedic students in a disaster drill on LIRR
Photo: Marc A. Hermann / MTA New York City Transit

Some might say the best is yet to come in May. You may find joy in one or more of the following in the days ahead:

The Biggest Week in American Birding (which is actually 9 days)
Reading is Fundamental Week (in case you hadn’t noticed my priorities)
National Sun Safety Week
National Polka Weekend (22-24)
Mudbug Madness Days (Shreveport, LA)
National Etiquette Week
Emergency Medical Services Week (preferably from a distance)
International Pickles Week (I celebrate dill, the others not so much)
Frog Jumping Jubilee Days (Calaveras County, CA)
National Bike to Work Week

Celebrate All Month Long

If even a week is too constraining—or just doesn’t have enough time to do it properly—go for one of the 118 Monthly Holidays and Observances. Trust me, there is something here for everyone! Just a few far-flung examples:

How good is your posture right now?

American Wetlands Month
Asian American and Pacific Islander Heritage Month
Arthritis Awareness Month
Be Kind to Animals Month (for when a single week isn’t enough!)
Correct Posture Month
Get Caught Reading Month
Gifts from the Garden Month
International Drum Month (though my drumming days are behind me)
National Chocolate Custard Month
National Smile Month
Women’s Health Care Month
National Vinegar Month (there are at least 15 different types.)
Personal History Awareness Month

This blog barely scratches the surface of the momentous options available for days, weeks, or all month long!

Bottom Line: All told, you have 734 opportunities to celebrate, observe and/or hone your awareness. If you don’t, it won’t be for lack of options.

DO WE REALLY NEED MORE THERAPISTS?

My Ph.D. is in Experimental Social Psychology. Though I was not a clinician, an article in the print edition of a recent Wall Street Journal grabbed my attention: Where Have All the Male Therapists Gone? (Published online as What Will Happen When All the Male Therapists are Gone? [March 12, 2026]) “… in the mid-1960s, the ratio of men to women in the field was 80 to 20. Today, that ratio has flipped.” (Going forward, any citation from that article will be marked **.) This is a great article, and I suggest you read it if you can.

“The main consequence of the feminization of psychology is the topics that are worked on,” says [Martin] Seligman. “From the 1960s through the 1980s, it was aggression, conflict and trauma, but not love, meaning, friendship or cooperation.” **

Women In Psychological Research

One might see this switch in research focus as “natural” when more women are researchers. In the early 20th Century, mainstream psychological research largely excluded women. When women were included in the research population, their data were interpreted through male-centered perspectives. That is, researchers assumed the male results to be the standard. Early psychology often pathologized women.

The psychology of women emerged as a distinct field and gained momentum during the rise of the feminist movement. Feminists challenged these biases, leading to research focused on women’s experiences, gender roles, identity, and the social and cultural factors affecting women’s mental health.

In 1973 the American Psychological Association (APA) established Division 35, the Society for the Psychology of Women, formalizing the field’s recognition. Since then, the field has expanded to include intersectional perspectives, exploring how race, class, sexuality, and other factors intersect with gender.

Downside for Men

male therapists

Though this change to less violent and more humane research has much to recommend it, Seligman sees less research on therapy and issues for boys and men as a downside. ** While I applaud psychology for—finally—recognizing the distinct experiences and needs of women, the current imbalance is equally regrettable. The male psyche is becoming less the norm than an aberration. According to Mark Kiselica, “They are greatly influenced by models that look at how boys and men are flawed rather than about boys and men are different.” ** It truly is a a reversal of psychology researchers’ bias.

Issues of bias aside, there is strong evidence that men are struggling today. In 2023, suicide rates for men were approximately four times higher than for women. Overall, men account for about 77% of suicides, while women make up about 23%, showing a stark gender difference in suicide mortality.

Roughly 15% of U.S. men aged 21-25 reported a major depressive episode in 2024. “It’s estimated that roughly 1 in 5 men suffer from some form of mental illness—a share that has increased from 13.6% in 2008.” **

Men are significantly less likely than women to seek therapy due to societal expectations, stigma, and perceptions that mental health issues are not “manly.” This may be changing—albeit slowly. “In 2024, 17.3% of men sought some form of counseling up from 8.7% in 2002.” **

Gender Wage Gap

Unintended—though probably not surprising—side effects of women becoming the majority of clinicians include lower pay and less prestige.

When Katherine Johnson was a computer programmer at NASA, it was considered “women’s work” and not well-paid.

Jobs with higher female representation typically pay less, even when requiring similar skill levels. This phenomenon is linked to occupational segregation and undervaluation of “feminine” work. In 2024, women in management, professional, and related occupations earned about 74 cents for every dollar earned by men in similar roles.

Indeed, women earn less than men across occupations, including those dominated by women.

Women earn significantly less than men for the same job. Depending on the source, the average pay gap ranges from 15-24%. Case in point, the recent negotiations for equal pay in the WNBA!

But it’s all relative! Even if male therapists earn more than female therapists, they are less likely to pursue careers in lower-paying professional fields.

But, truly, how important is the dearth of male therapists?

True, men who work in male-dominated fields are more likely to prefer a male therapist who “speaks the same language.” Nevertheless, only 40% of men expressed a gender preference for their therapist, and of those half preferred a woman. **

Clinicians agree that a well-trained therapist can work effectively with both male and female clients. Furthermore, research has found no differences between male and female therapists in their effectiveness or client outcomes.**

Lack of Therapists

So perhaps the real problem is the dearth of therapists overall.

The United States currently faces a significant shortage of therapists and mental health professionals relative to the demand for mental health services. Several factors may be contributing to this need.

Growing Mental Health Awareness
Increasing awareness and reduced stigma around mental health have led more people to seek therapy and counseling.

High Demand vs. Supply Gap
Many regions, especially rural and underserved urban areas, have insufficient numbers of therapists, leading to long wait times and limited access.

Rising Mental Health Challenges
The prevalence of anxiety, depression, PTSD, and other disorders has increased, partly exacerbated by the COVID-19 pandemic and social stressors.

Workforce Shortages
The mental health workforce is aging, with many professionals nearing retirement and fewer new therapists entering the field than needed.

Insurance and Cost Barriers
Even where therapists exist, cost and insurance coverage can limit access, making the demand for affordable, accessible therapy even more pressing.

Bottom Line: Expanding the mental health workforce with more therapists can improve access, reduce wait times, and support better mental health outcomes.