BETTER KNOW YOUR BODY

I originally posted this blog entry in July 2024, “Better Know Your Body” but so much information deserves a second look!

Everybody has one. But how much do you really know about it?

Skin

Let’s start with your largest and most visible organ: skin. When it comes to skin, we tend to notice attractiveness, color, roughness, and wrinkles. But skin is functional as well as ornamental. It keeps everything on the inside from coming out. In addition, it also helps keep us at the right temperature, helps us with touch and sensation, allows us to move without restriction (not too tight or too loose), heals and regenerates constantly, and much more.

You probably aren’t average, but these “average” data will give you an idea of how you compare.

Skin by the Numbers

If you are average, your skin weighs 6-9 or 7.5-22 pounds, depending on your source. According to the NIH Library of Medicine, skin makes up approximately 1/7 of your body weight.

Again, if you are average, you have approximately 21 square feet of skin.

Organ donation can include skin.

The average person has about 300 million skin cells. One square inch of skin has about 19 million cells.

Every second, you produce 25 million cells.

The entire surface of your skin is replaced every month, which put another way means you have about 1,000 different skins in your life! This skin renewal every 27-28 days involves sloughing off the old.

Your skin constantly sheds dead cells, about 30,000 to 40,000 cells every minute! (That’s nearly 9 lbs. per year. On the low end, other sources say you slough off roughly 1.5 pounds of dead skin a year, equal to about 3 ½ cups of sugar.)

Dead skin comprises about a billion tons of dust in the earth’s atmosphere. Indoors, the oil on dead skin cells helps to remove ozone, leaving the air cleaner!

Some sources estimate that more than half of household dust is actually dead skin, others say 70%, but much depends on number of people, pets, etc.

Passengers

Your skin is home to more than 1,000 species of bacteria.

Your face is host to bugs (demodex folliculorum) too tiny to see. Hairlines, eye sockets, and lashes are favorite hiding places. If they get out of control, they can cause skin problems or eye infections.

About 2,400 germs call the belly button home. The average person has 67 different species of bacteria in their belly button.

Weird Skin

Scar tissue is different from normal skin because it lacks hair and sweat glands.

Some of the nerves in your skin are connected to muscles instead of the brain, sending signals (through the spinal cord) to react more quickly to heat, pain, etc.

The color of human skin is determined by the level of pigment melanin that the body produces. Those with small amounts of melanin have light skin while those with large amounts have dark skin.

Genital skin is darker than other skin: nipples, anus, and genitals are more sensitive to sex hormones acting on melanocytes. The contrast increases during puberty and pregnancy.

Your skin has at least five different types of receptors that respond to pain and touch.

Blood and Heart

Your skin contains more than 11 miles of blood vessels.

Your blood makes up about eight percent of your body weight.

Laid end to end, an adult’s blood vessels are between 9,000 and 19,000 kilometers long! This includes veins, arteries, and communicating little capillaries that move between both.

Pus is a build-up of white blood cells.

Humans are the only species known to blush.

Your heart beats around 100000 times a day, 36500000 times a year and over a billion times if you live beyond 30.

Inside your bones are tiny tubes filled with blood vessels called osteons. They are to bones what rings are to trees.  The percentage of large osteons increases with age.

Your eyes blink around 20 times a minute. That’s over ten million times a year!

Sweat

The body has 2.5 million sweat pores.

A single square inch of skin has up to 300 sweat glands.

When you’re too hot—or you lose your cool—your nerves send signals to open millions of glands, allowing sweat to flow. It pools by your armpits, palms, feet, head, and private parts.

Earwax is actually a type of sweat! A recessive gene can cause earwax to be dry and flaky rather than viscous and sticky.

Germs love to swim, so they thrive in sweat. Sweat on its own doesn’t smell bad. It’s the bacteria that mix with it.

Body Products

Your mouth produces about one-two liters of saliva each day!

You produce about 40,000 liters of spit in your lifetime. Or to put it another way, enough spit to fill around five hundred bathtubs.

Babies don’t shed tears until they’re at least one month old.

What we eat directly affects urine and feces. For example, you might notice red or pink after bingeing on beets. Or changes in your urine after eating asparagus.
(Note: although asparagus affects the chemistry of everyone’s urine, some people are able to smell it and others aren’t—whether their own or someone else’s.)

We urinate enough every month to fill a bath!

The average nose produces about a cupful of nasal mucus every day.

On average, you fart enough in one day to fill a party balloon.

Brain and Nervous System

Your brain is the fattiest organ in the body, approximately 60% by dry weight. It needs essential fatty acids to perform adequately.

The brain uses over a quarter of the oxygen used by the human body.

Your brain is sometimes more active when you’re asleep than when you’re awake. Humans have a stage of sleep that features rapid eye movement (REM). REM sleep makes up around 25% of total sleep time and is often when you have your most vivid dreams.

Information zooms along nerves at about 400k mph!

Everyone is familiar with forgetting, but additionally, our brain re-writes memories each time we think of them, slowly altering or twisting them over time.

Muscles

The word “muscle” comes from Latin term meaning “little mouse“, which is what Ancient Romans thought flexed bicep muscles resembled.

Your heart is the only muscle that doesn’t get tired.

Gluteus maximus is the Latin name for the largest muscle in your body, your behind. You have two of them, one for each cheek. These powerful muscles serve as a cushion when you sit down, but when flexed tight, they keep you upright.

Few muscles are as hard-working as the tongue. By day, it twists to form the sounds you speak and pushes around the food you eat. While you sleep, your tongue moves saliva down your throat. 

The strongest muscle in the human body is the jaw (masseter). A healthy jaw can close teeth with a force of up to 200 pounds, according to the Library of Congress.

Eyes

Your eyes can get sunburned. The symptoms include headache, eye pain and redness, tearing, blurred vision, twitching, and feeling gritty. Sunglasses can prevent sunburn, and symptoms typically resolve themselves after 48 hours.

Your eye is your fastest muscle. The orbicularis oculi is capable of contracting in less than 1/100th of a second.

A blink typically can last 100-150 milliseconds.

Infants blink only once or twice a minute while adults average around 10.

Women blink 19 times per minute compared to 11 per minute for men. This may relate to estrogen levels, which can make the cornea more elastic, changing how light waves travel through the eye.

You blink more when talking and less when you are reading. This is why you get tired when reading.

Only two percent of the population have green eyes. The largest concentration of green-eyed peoples is in Ireland, Scotland, and Northern Europe. All races (Asian, African, Caucasian, Pacific Islanders, Arabic, Hispanic, and the indigenous peoples of the Americas) can have green eyes.

All babies are born with blue or brown eyes. Green eyes can take between six months and three years to appear in children.

By three months, our eyes are the same size that they will ever be as the corneas have reached their full width. Human eyes grow rapidly in the womb and for the first three months after birth.

GI Tract

Your sense of smell is around 10000 times more sensitive than your sense of taste.

As well as having unique fingerprints, humans also have unique tongue prints.

It takes the body around 12 hours to completely digest eaten food.

When meds are to be taken “on an empty stomach” that means an hour before or two hours after eating.

You can’t breathe and swallow simultaneously.

On average, your intestines are 25 feet long from end to end. Your small intestine is over 20 feet. And while your large intestine is wider around, it’s only about 5 feet in length.

Your intestines are always moving, a continuous wavy motion called peristalsis. Or when vomiting, reverse-peristalsis.

Stomach acid can melt metal—at least certain metals, such as zinc. Digestive juices in the gut contain hydrochloric acid. They rank just below battery acid on the pH scale.

Your Asymmetrical Body

The two sides of your face are not alike. If you take a photo of your face and divide it down the middle, then replicate each half, the faces look different enough for people to judge one face better looking than the other!

One side of your body is bigger than the other, with bigger hand and foot.

Your left lung is about 10 percent smaller than your right one.

Almost everyone is stronger and more dexterous on one side of their body than the other. Research indicates somewhere between 85% and 90% of the population is right-handed; almost everyone else favors their left hand. Only about 1% of the population is naturally ambidextrous, but it is possible to train one’s non-dominant side to greater strength and ability.

Body Bits and Pieces

All humans share about 99.9% of our DNA with other humans. For comparison, we share 98% with pigs, and 60% with bananas! (thednatests.com)

The extra skin on your elbow, known scientifically as olecranal skin or colloquially at the weenus, is basically nature’s Silly Puddy because there are fewer sensory neurons located there. That means you can keep kneading it all day long, and as hard as you want.

Adult lungs have a surface area of around 70 square meters!

Human teeth are almost as hard as opal. Diamonds have a hardness of 10; teeth are at 5.

You are about 1cm taller in the morning when you first get up than when you go to bed. This is because during the day the soft cartilage between your bones gets squashed and compressed.

Some penises “grow” more than 4 centimeters when aroused. I found nothing about any relationship between this and any aspect of sexual functioning.

Vaginas range from 2.7 to 3.1 inches. The depth while aroused ranges from 4.3 to 4.7 inches.

Men are more sensitive to caffeine; women are more sensitive to alcohol.

Your fingernails grow three times faster than toenails, explained by the hands having more blood pumping through them. The fingernails on your dominant hand grow faster. In colder weather, nails grow more slowly.

Health changes, such as pregnancy, vitamin deficiencies, menopause, and trauma can show up in your hair and nails. Your hair stylist or manicurist might know you’re pregnant before you do!

The smallest bone found in the human body is located in the middle ear. The stapes (or stirrup) bone is only 2.8 millimeters long.

Human teeth are just as strong as shark teeth.

Spread across their lifetime, most people spend an average of one whole year sitting on the toilet.

Your nose and ears continue growing throughout your entire life.

More Nose Facts

Scientists estimate that the human nose can recognize a trillion different scents!

During pregnancy, one’s sense of smell improves dramatically, possibly the body’s attempt to avoid exposing the fetus to danger.

A human’s scent also changes during pregnancy. Other humans can’t usually detect it, but pets might!

Our bodies give one nostril a break while the other is active – we just don’t know we do it. We naturally tend to alternate breathing from one nostril then the other, which helps keep the air we breathe moist so as not to irritate our lungs.

Identical twins smell the same. No surprise there!

Aging Body

Every new cell is reproduced from the template of our DNA. Therefore, it’s not surprising that this DNA template gets worn away and errors occur as we age. But the aging body is beyond the scope here!

Bottom Line: Know your body well as a path to taking good care of it!

UBIQUITOUS BLOOD

Blood is so important that it has escaped the confines of the body and pops up everywhere, in symbolism, metaphors, and superstitions.

Fallacies About Blood

In many ancient cultures, where blood was seen as the essence of life—sacrificing blood (animal or human)—was believed to sustain the gods, the land, or the community. In ancient paganism, such sacrifices were offered to gods like Moloch, Aztec deities, or the Greek Fates to ensure fertility, harvests, or protection.

It was once believed that blood was the same as life, and as such, drinking blood was the equivalent of a transfusion today.

In other cultures, the heart was thought to be the blood-fountain and the core of personality, so this drinking of blood was regarded as soul transference.

Ma’at weighing the heart of the deceased against the Feather of Truth, determining a soul’s guilt or innocence in the Egyptian Book of the Dead

Cannibalism, as a tribal rite, was based on a similar belief, that the blood of another was his life and soul. The practice of drinking the blood of the bravest foes was to acquire their courage, cunning, and other distinctive traits.

Royalty and the super rich literally had blue blood. This was based on the fact that those who did not labor in the sun, and therefore weren’t tan, had veins that showed more prominently blue. (Indeed, some creatures have blue blood—e.g., horseshoe crabs—but humans aren’t among them.) Historically, Royal Blood meant that royalty were of divine or pure lineage, untouched by commoners. Bloodlines determined inheritance, legitimacy, and power.

Transfusion bag

People of different races have different blood, and transfusions across ethnic groups are dangerous if not deadly.

In Japan, many people use blood type as a personality predictor, similar to how some Americans ascribe to star signs or Vietnamese believe in a birth year cycle.

A baby gets blood from the mother. In fact, the fetus creates its own blood entirely, in utero.

Bloodletting

Bloodletting in the 1860s

As far back as the Ancient Egyptians, doctors have attempted to treat patients by adjusting fluids inside the body. In particular, medical theories held that sweating and bloodletting were effective treatments for everything from headaches to gout. Hippocrates believed menstruation was a spontaneous form of bloodletting. Talmudic, Ayurvedic, Chinese, and Islamic medical texts all contain detailed instructions of the practice.

Galen created very specific charts of the best locations to cut or place leeches to achieve specific health benefits, encouraging patients to take their “cure” into their own hands! Cutting the vein in the right hand might cure liver problems, while cutting the vein in the left hand could cure spleen trouble.

Diagram of where to bleed for specific health concerns

He also believed that the heart created blood and sent it to the organs and extremities, where it was used up. Having too much would cause it to stagnate, leading to illness. For centuries, doctors throughout Europe and the Middle East thought it purged toxins, balanced bodily chemistry, and boosted immunity.

Bloodletting remained a common medical practice through the 19th Century. Textbooks from 1923 still recommended treating patients with strategic bleeding.

It still shows up in our language. “Bloodletting” is now a euphemism for simmering tensions in a community erupting into violence.

Bloody Language

A subject so entwined with human history and sensibilities is bound to show up in our language.

Blood in Metaphors

Blood feud: People of one bloodline/clan are born enemies of another.

In cold blood: To do something cruel or violent deliberately and without emotion.

Hematohidrosis, a rare medical condition, causes a patient to sweat actual blood.

Blood, sweat, and tears: A lot of effort and hard work, often involving suffering.

Blood runs cold: To feel a sudden shock or horror.

Flesh and blood: Someone’s family or relatives; also used to describe human limitations or weaknesses.

Blood boils: To become extremely angry.

Bad blood: Strong feelings of hatred or anger between people.

New blood: New people joining a group or organization, bringing fresh ideas.

Roman gladiators from a Third Century mosaic

Blood sport: A sport involving the hunting or killing of animals, or a violent competition.

Blood money: Money earned through dishonest or violent means; also refers to money paid to a killer as compensation for a murder.

Bloodcurdling: Extremely frightening or shocking.

Blood brother: A very close friend; historically, mingling a few drops of blood from two people in a cup of wine and both drinking it sealed the bond. More recently, two people nick their thumbs or wrist veins and press them together to seal the bond. (“Brothers” could also be women, though this was much less common.)

Lady Macbeth by Gabriel von Max

Blood on one’s hands (e.g., Lady Macbeth’s famous line, “Out, damned spot!”) symbolizes moral stain or unresolved guilt.

Bloodstained: Covered or marked with blood, often implying violence or guilt.

In one’s blood: innate, as of a skill or quality. The same as “XXX runs in the family.”

Blood is thicker than water: Family relationships are stronger than other relationships.

In some initiation rites (e.g., fraternities, secret societies, or rites of passage), blood may symbolize commitment, loyalty, or rebirth into a new social or spiritual state.

Bloody Proverbs

  • Blood is inherited and virtue is acquired.
  • None so keen at the hunting of wolves as the dog with wolf blood.
  • Who grudges his blood to a blade had better earn his living behind the plow.
  • You cannot get blood from a stone/turnip
  • Good blood will never lie.
  • Men’s skins have many colors, but human blood is always red.
  • Like blood, like means, and like age, make the happiest marriage.
  • Marrying in the blood is never good.
  • Noble and common blood is of the same color.
  • If blood is spilt on you before breakfast, you will shed blood before nightfall.

The human body contains about 5 liters (1.3 gallons) of blood, which circulates through the body 3 times every minute on average! It transports oxygen, nutrients, and hormones, fights infections, regulates body temperature, and removes waste products.

Bottom Line: Blood is so important that it’s everywhere!

KIDS SAY THE DARNEDEST THINGS!

Art Linkletter’s Kids Say the Darndest Things!

1. Don’t change horses———until they stop running.

People of a certain age will remember this week’s title from a feature segment on Art Linkletter’s radio and television program, House Party. Linkletter hosted the segment on the program’s CBS adaptation from 1959 to 1967. Sometimes amazing, sometimes outrageous, often surprising, always humorous.

It’s in that spirit that I offer this week’s blog. I thank Mariann Fitzpatrick for sharing this years ago. I have no idea where she got it. But it purports to be from a first-grade school teacher. She presented each of the 26 kids in her class with the first part of a well-known proverb and asked them to finish it. Here are the other 25.

Strike while———the bug is close.

It’s always darkest before————Daylight Savings Time.

Never underestimate the power of————termites.

You can lead a horse to water but————how?

Don’t bite the hand that————looks dirty.

No news is————impossible.

A miss is as good as————a Mr.

You can’t teach an old dog new————math.

If you lie down with dogs————you’ll stink in the morning.

Love all, trust————me.

The pen is mightier than the————pigs.

An idle mind is————the best way to relax.

Where there’s smoke, there’s————pollution.

Happy the bride who————gets all the presents.

A penny saved is————not much.

Two’s company, three’s————the Musketeers.

Don’t put off till tomorrow what————you put on to go to bed.

Laugh and the world laughs with you, cry and————you have to blow your nose.

There’s none so blind as————Stevie Wonder.

Children should be seen and not————spanked or grounded.

If at first you don’t succeed————get new batteries.

You get out of something only what you————see in the picture on the box.

When the blind lead the blind————get out of the way.

A bird in the hand is————going to poop on you.

Better late than————pregnant.

Bottom Line: You may find it difficult to believe that these actually came from 6-year-olds. Nevertheless, enjoy the insights and the humor.

WHAT’S WRONG WITH ME?

I’ve been writing a weekly blog for a gazillion years, but this week I struggled to find a topic that engaged me. Why?

It wasn’t a brain freeze. That would be brief: not coming up with the right word, answer, name, etc. A synonym would be drawing a blank: being unable to recall a required piece of information (or failing to find something).

Nor was it Net Brain: this is a syndrome I discovered when I worked at the American Psychological Association. While not an official diagnosis, it’s a handy one: it’s when something just falls out of your consciousness. Examples include missing an appointment (or any commitment). Briefly stated, you forgot.

Could it be a case of Beach Brain? An idle mind, also known as being “out to lunch” (when that isn’t literal). An example would be losing track of a conversation, movie plot, or whose play it is during mah jong.

Writer's Block by Leonid Pasternak
Leonid Pasternack understood my struggle!

My mental wanderings led me to think about other words and phrases we use to summarize disfunction.

FUBAR: f****d up beyond all recovery/remedy/recognition/etc. Also, utterly botched or confused. No, that doesn’t fit my situation; it clearly assumes that something has been done!

Procrastination isn’t apropos, either. I didn’t put off thinking about it, I just couldn’t make progress.

Unfocused? Synonyms for unfocused include muddled, bewildered, dazed, scatterbrained, confused, bemused, senile, negligent. Well, senility could be the root cause, but I refuse to consider it.

Having difficulty making decisions is one symptom of depression, but only one out of dozens of psychological, physical, and social symptoms. So, not depression.

I know of two words for suddenly forgetting something “right on the tip of your tongue” derived from the river Lethe in Greek mythology. If you are suddenly unable to remember a word that you definitely know you know, you are experiencing lethologica. When your brain suddenly refuses to supply the name of a familiar person, that’s lethonomia.

Bottom Line: I don’t know why I struggled so much this week, but I do know the outcome: I’m giving up!

CHILDREN’S PASSIONS

A friend recently mentioned that her niece is obsessed with space and has been excitedly following everything Artemis II she can find. Maybe she’ll become part of the space program someday. Many astronauts have shown a lifelong passion for space, often showing interest in astronomy, space exploration, or science from a young age.

Early Lives of Astronauts

Children's Passions Mercury Seven

Alan Shepard, Gus Grissom, John Glenn, and Wally Schirra are among the Mercury Seven astronauts who were always interested in space. Other notable examples include:

Neil Armstrong: The first person to walk on the Moon, Armstrong was fascinated by flight and space from childhood, inspired by the early days of aviation and space exploration.

Sally Ride: The first American woman in space, she developed an interest in physics and space science early on, inspired by the possibilities of space travel.

Mae Jemison: The first African American woman in space, Jemison was passionate about science and space from an early age, motivated by her love for learning and exploration.

Chris Hadfield: Known for his social media presence from the International Space Station (ISS), Hadfield was inspired by space exploration throughout his life and pursued a career as an astronaut with great enthusiasm.

Yuri Gagarin: The first human in space, Gagarin was drawn to aviation and space as a young man, inspired by the possibilities of human flight.

Common Children’s Passions

It isn’t just space, of course. Children often become passionate about activities that stem from their inherent talents and strengths.

Children's Passions Venus Serena Williams

Running, swimming, biking, team sports, or just playing outside can be a source of excitement and energy for many kids. The Williams sisters began playing tennis at very young ages, with Serena starting around three years old, Venus around age four, coached by their father Richard Williams.

Pretending to be superheroes, explorers, or characters from stories fuels creativity and social skills.

Music and Poetry

Drawing, painting, crafting, music, dance, and storytelling often capture children’s imaginations, allowing them to express themselves and experiment with ideas. Mozart began playing the keyboard and violin and composing music at the age of five.

Cellist Yo Yo Ma began violin lessons at age four and performed Bach Concertos in his first concert at age five at the University of Paris.

British singer Adele developed a passion for voices when she was four years old and published her first track when she was just 17.

Reading and Writing

Books and stories open new worlds and ideas, often igniting a love for reading and learning. Research indicates that reading fiction enhances empathy in children.

The poet Alexander Pope was a child genius, known for translating major works and writing epics in his early teenage years. He was 12 years old when he wrote his first major piece entitled Ode on Solitude. When he was 21 years old, he published Pastorals.

Terry Pratchett started writing as a child and published his first short story in his school magazine at age 13. He was only 15 at the time of his first commercial publication, “Business Rivals.”

S. E. (Susan Eloise) Hinton wrote The Outsiders when she was only 16 years old.

Many young authors can be found online.

Building and Making

Constructing with blocks, LEGO, or other materials sparks passion in kids who enjoy problem-solving and hands-on creation. The LEGO company partners with schools to encourage children’s building passions and STEAM programs.

Kautilya Pandit, an Indian prodigy who demonstrated remarkable engineering skills at a young age, including building models of bridges and other structures. His achievements in engineering concepts at a young age are remarkable.

Science and Biology

Many children are fascinated by animals, plants, and the outdoors. This can include pets, wildlife, insects, and exploring natural environments like parks or gardens.

Charles Darwin showed an early interest in natural history, collecting beetles and other specimens as a child. His curiosity about the natural world grew during his youth, eventually leading to his groundbreaking work on evolution.

From a young age, Jane Goodall was fascinated by animals and Africa. She began observing and studying chimpanzees as a teenager, which developed into her lifelong career in primatology and conservation.

Rachel Carson’s early fascination with marine life led to her influential environmental writings.

Some children develop an early passion for science, asking questions about how things work, conducting simple experiments, or exploring technology. One of my granddaughters put herself to sleep by mentally solving math problems to the base six instead of base ten. Will she become a famous mathematician? It doesn’t matter!

Supporting Children’s Passions

Supporting children’s passions matters—even when it has nothing to do with career achievements.

Encouraging children’s passions nurtures confidence, curiosity, and resilience. It also helps children develop skills aligned with their interests, which can grow into lifelong hobbies or activities.

Nurturing children’s passionate interests is like watering a young seedling, helping it grow into a strong, vibrant tree. And like any tree, it takes time!

Here are some ways to encourage and support children’s enthusiasms.

Create a Supportive Environment

Provide resources: Books, tools, materials, or access to classes related to their interests.

Designate a dedicated space: A cozy corner or area where they can explore freely.

Celebrate curiosity: Show genuine interest and ask questions about what excites them.

Encourage Exploration and Experimentation

Allow freedom: Let children try different activities without pressure to excel immediately.

Value the process over results: Focus on learning and joy rather than just outcomes.

Support mistakes as learning: Help them see failures as stepping stones, not setbacks.

Be an Active Participant

Engage together: Join in their activities occasionally to deepen connection and show support.

Find role models: Introduce them to people or stories that inspire their passion.

Encourage sharing: Help them express their interests through presentations, art, or storytelling.

Balance Passion with Well-being

Respect their pace: Avoid pushing too hard; let their interest evolve naturally.

Encourage social connections: Foster friendships with peers who share similar passions.

Promote diverse experiences: While focusing on passion, encourage trying other activities to develop well-roundedness.

Long-Term Support

Set realistic goals: Help children set achievable steps to deepen their skills.

Provide opportunities: Enroll them in clubs, camps, or competitions aligned with their interests.

Recognize growth: Celebrate milestones and progress to build confidence. By nurturing children’s passions with patience and encouragement, you help cultivate not only skills but also confidence, creativity, and a lifelong love of learning.

Remember that such passions emerge spontaneously, and can be anything. For example

  • Taekwando
  • Ballet
  • Dragons
  • Dinosaurs
  • Construction equipment
  • Etc., etc., etc.

Bottom Line: Children’s passions reflect their natural curiosity, creativity, and desire to explore the world around them. Encouraging them promotes lifelong learning.

ARE YOU TOO YOUNG FOR THAT? OR TOO OLD?

Are you old enough to do that in the United States? It all depends on what “that” is—and where!

In the United States, age requirements for various activities are set by federal and state laws. They vary depending on the activity and location.

Here’s an overview of age thresholds for key activities.

Age Limit by Federal Law

In general, anything under Federal jurisdiction is consistent across states. It’s the areas under state control that vary—and vary widely!

Civic Participation

Age Limit voting

Voting

The minimum age to vote in federal, state, and local elections is 18 years old. The 26th Amendment, ratified in 1971, standardized the voting age for federal and state elections.

Jury Duty

The minimum age to serve on a jury is also 18 years old.

Military Service

The minimum age to enlist in the U.S. military is 17 with parental consent, 18 without.

Drinking and Smoking

Drinking Alcohol

The National Minimum Drinking Age Act of 1984 set 21 as the legal drinking age nationwide.

age limit smoking

Smoking and Tobacco Use

In 2019, a federal law raised the minimum age for purchasing tobacco and vaping products to 21.

Driving Age Limit

The minimum age limit for driving varies by state, by vehicle use, and by level of supervision.

A driver must be 16 years old in North Dakota, South Dakota, and Montana for a full driver’s license. South Dakota and North Dakota drivers can get a learner’s permit at 14 and drive their parents’ car at 15. The age limit is 16.5, 17, or 18 in other states, though most states allow a learner’s permit at 15-16.

Some states offer “hardship licenses” for teens who can prove they need the ability to drive independently earlier than their peers. The family may rely on the teen to drive siblings, to go to school, to work in a family business (such as a farm), or for long-term medical reasons.

Driving Farm Vehicles

There is no specific federal age limit for driving farm vehicles on private farmland.

Age Limit Farm Vehicles

Many states allow youth as young as 14 or 16 to operate farm machinery on private property or on public roads under certain conditions (e.g., with supervision or during harvest season). South Dakota and Kansas permit 14-year-olds to drive farm vehicles with parental permission.

Generally, children under 12 are prohibited from driving farm tractors on public roads, but they may be allowed on private property under supervision. Some states have specific child labor laws for agriculture that allow minors aged 10 or 11 to work and operate certain farm equipment outside school hours under prescribed conditions, reflecting a recognition of agricultural work as a special case.

On public roads, the minimum age to drive farm equipment is often 16, aligning more closely with standard driving laws. However, many states have exemptions for farm use that allow younger drivers to have very limited public road use.

Age of Consent for Sex

Thirty states legally allow individuals aged 16 and older to consent to sexual activity, though some may have close-in-age exemptions or additional conditions that vary by state.

Colorado, Illinois, Louisiana, Missouri, New York, Texas, and Wyoming require teens to be 17 years old.

Age 18 is the law in Arizona, California, Delaware, Florida, Idaho, Kentucky, North Dakota, Oklahoma, Oregon, Tennessee, Utah, Virginia, and Wisconsin.

Marriage Age Limit

age limit marriage

The minimum legal age for marriage is a bit complicated in the US, depending on the state and certain special circumstances. The trend has been to adjust the general marriage age downward and to raise the age for women to that of men. Until 1971, approximately 80% of states had a general marriage age of 18 for women, while for men the general marriage age was 21 in approximately 85% of states. In the U.S., 315,000 girls under the age of 18 were married between 2000 and 2021.

The minimum age at which a person can marry, with or without parental consent or other authorization, is set by each state and territory, either by statute or where the common law applies.

General Marriage Age

The general marriage age (lacking authorization for an exception) is the age of majority, 18 years of age in all states except two. In Nebraska, the general marriage age is 19. In Mississippi, the general marriage age is 21.

Alabama has them switched: the general marriage age is 18 while the age of majority is 19.

Underage Exceptions

When at least one of the marriage partners is under the general marriage age, the marriage is typically allowed with parental or judicial consent or both. The minimum underage marriage age, when all mitigating circumstances are taken into account, commonly ranges from 15 to 17.

  • As of April 2026, four states do not set any minimum age for marriage: California, New Mexico, Oklahoma, and Mississippi.
  • Hawaii and Kansas allow teens to marry at age 15 with parental and judicial approval.
  • Sixteen states completely ban underage marriage: Connecticut, Delaware , Massachusetts, Minnesota, New Jersey, New York, Pennsylvania, Vermont, Michigan, Rhode Island, Washington, Virginia, New Hampshire, Maine, Oregon, and Missouri.
  • Many states include age gap specifications in their laws around marriage age. People over a certain age (20, 21, or 22) cannot marry a person under the age of majority.

Gambling

age limit gambling

The age limit varies by state and type of gambling, generally 18 or 21 years old.

The states that allow legal gambling at the age of 18 are Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Minnesota, Montana, Oklahoma, and Washington.

In the U.S., lotteries, bingos, some tribal casinos, horse-racing, and sports betting are often allowed at 18. Casino table games and slot machines typically require players to be 21 or older.

Employment Age Limit

The minimum age for most non-agricultural work under federal child labor laws is 14, with restrictions on hours and types of work. Much like driving farm vehicles, the age limits for working on a farm come with many nuances and exceptions. The youngest workers—typically those aged 14 and 15—have the most restrictions.

Jobs with the Lowest Age Limit (14 or 15)

Office and Clerical Work

Cashiering and Sales (not operating heavy machinery)

Bagging and Carrying Out Customers’ Orders

Clean-up Work (floors, tables, and equipment, with restrictions on hazardous chemicals)

Kitchen Work in Restaurants (minors are still not allowed to cook with dangerous equipment like fryers or ovens)

Library and Museum Work (shelving books or guiding visitors)

Delivering Newspapers (with some state-specific rules)

Key Restrictions for Young Workers

  • Cannot operate heavy machinery or power-driven equipment (with some exceptions like cash registers)
  • Limited to working outside school hours
  • Limited work hours on school days and during the school year (e.g., max 3 hours on school days, 8 hours on non-school days)
  • Work permitted only between 7 a.m. and 7 p.m. (extended to 9 p.m. from June 1 through Labor Day)

Jobs Not Allowed for the Youngest Workers

  • Manufacturing or mining
  • Construction or excavation
  • Operating motor vehicles or power-driven machinery (See farm children for exception)
  • Cooking with open flames or fryers
  • Working in warehouses or loading/unloading trucks

For 16- and 17-year-olds, more jobs open up, including some with power-driven machinery, but hazardous jobs remain prohibited.

Entertainment

Macaulay Culkin

The rules around children employed in entertainment are again full of exceptions and nuance. The US has come quite a long way since Judy Garland was given amphetamines and forced to work 72 hour shifts while filming The Wizard of Oz. Laws in different states mandate things like rest breaks, having an educator and guardian on site, trust funds, on-set conditions, and total hours worked for young performers.

In recent years, legislators have been grappling with the thorny issue of how to classify children who earn money for parents filming them in the home and posting online. If a parent’s primary income derives from documenting a child’s activities, tantrums, and play, which laws should protect the welfare of that child?

Purchasing Firearms

Age limits around purchasing firearms varies by type of gun and from state to state. The minimum age to purchase handguns from licensed dealers is 21 years old. However, many states allow people to purchase rifles and shotguns is 18 years old.

Despite this, based on reports from more than 297,000 adolescents in the U.S. ages 12 to 17, about 4.6 percent of teens carried handguns in 2019. Carrying a handgun is become significantly more common.

Boys reported carrying at a rate four times higher than girls — 6 percent versus 1.5 percent. Still, gun-carrying became twice as common among girls by the end of the study.

Watching R-Rated Movies

There is no federal law, but theaters typically require R-rated moviegoers to be 17 years old or accompanied by an adult.

Not in theaters? Nearly three-quarters of teens aged 13 to 17 have seen pornographic content online, with many exposed before their teen years.

Upper Age Limit

But minors aren’t the only ones affected by age limits. Several areas of life become illegal — or bureaucratically more difficult — for people above a certain age.

Some careers, including airline pilots, air traffic controllers, and some state judges have mandatory retirement ages. These tend to be careers that require fast reflexes or high mental engagement.

Other careers bar participants from joining past a certain age. Many law enforcement agencies will not accept new recruits if they are 30 or 40 years old. The various branches of the military have different limits on the age of new recruits. New Marines must be 28 or younger, but new members of the Army National Guard can be 42.

Most states will not allow a person to attend public schools past age 19, 20, or 21.

Driving is not illegal past a certain age, but states may require more regular and rigorous testing. Texas requires drivers over age 79 to renew their license in person and drivers over age 85 to renew their license every two years. Drivers in Maine over age 65 must renew their license every four years, complete with a vision test.

While there is no age cap on jury service, it is significantly easier for people above age 65 to request an age exemption.

Unofficial Upper Age Limits

Oscar Swahn

There are many areas of life that, though not barred to people above a certain age, become more difficult.

In the workplace, older employees may face age-based discrimination, particularly when trying to find a new job. This is especially prevalent in the tech sector, though it is very difficult to prove.

The individual bodies governing each sport in the Olympics determine qualifications, including age limits, if any. Many sports require participants to be above a certain age. At the 2026 Milano Cortina Games, age limits ranged from 13 for skeleton sledding to 21 for biathlon. There is no official upper age limit, but the physical demands of most sports practically restrict competition at the highest level to young adults. Oscar Swahn , a Swedish shooter, holds the record for being the oldest Olympic participant (age 72 in the 1920 Olympics) as well as the oldest medalist (he was 64 when he won gold in the 1912 Olympics).

Youth hostels may restrict residents above age 35 or 40, but this is often waived if an applicant appears laid-back and capable of clambering into an upper bunk.

Lego packages include a suggested age range to indicate the difficulty of building. Classic sets of non-specific bricks are marked as suitable for ages 4-99. Perhaps people lose the ability to enjoy Lego when they turn 100!

Bottom Line: Even within the United States, if you want to be legal, check relevant laws by state and activity.

WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND

It’s everywhere! What was once outdated, a thing of the past, is experiencing a resurgence of popularity. Younger generations are exploring things familiar to their grandparents. The trend seems to be driven by nostalgia and/or a desire to “unplug.”

Food Goes Around and Comes Around

Why the comeback? This trend is rooted in a desire for comfort, authenticity, and sustainability. Many of these dishes are inherently plant-forward, use whole ingredients, and minimize food waste—aligning with modern values of mindful eating.

Nostalgic recipes draw chefs and home cooks with their versatility and affordability, making them perfect for everything from weeknight dinners to festive gatherings. The America We Remember channel on YouTube has many videos explaining nostalgic recipes.

The revival of old-fashioned foods often blends nostalgia with modern twists. Beloved classics are making a comeback, inspired by grandma’s kitchen and retro kitchens alike.

Comforting Casseroles & One-Pot Meals

Many people are reimagining these low-mess meals with healthier ingredients or gourmet touches. Once staples of mid-century dinner tables, these dishes are now celebrated for their simplicity and heartwarming appeal. Home cooks and chefs alike seek to recreate the cozy, soul-satisfying meals of yesteryear.

Other Nostalgic Foods Coming Back

Wedge salad: iceberg lettuce gets respectable again (here because I didn’t want it to stand alone!)

Salisbury steak

Cream-based soups (like Cream of Mushroom or Chicken) are also reappearing on menus

Chili dogs, often elevated with artisanal buns, house-made chili, or organic dairy

Fondue

Retro Desserts with a Modern Twist

Wacky Cake (a Depression-era wonder made without eggs or milk)

Jell-O molds are becoming popular again for their playful, creative potential, which people often feature in themed dinner parties

Chocolate-chip cookies baked from scratch, with bakers experimenting with heirloom recipes and high-quality ingredients

Classic Drinks & Snacks

  • Orange Julius, a mall staple from the ’80s and ’90s, with modern versions blending retro flavors and fresh ingredients
  • Jolt Cola, with “all the sugar and twice the caffeine!”
  • Old Fashioned
  • Negroni
  • Cosmopolitan
    • Bars are reporting increased demand from both older fans reliving their youth and younger generations eager to experience the retro drink.

Vodka-based drinks such as Appletinis and French Martinis are also making a comeback, embraced for their simplicity and versatility.

Food and Wine has named the “Guilty Pleasure” cocktail trend featuring drinks like Cosmos, Lemon Drops, and Lychee Martinis as the 2025 Drink Trend of the Year, reflecting a broader appetite for fun, indulgent, and nostalgic flavors.

Games Go Around and Come Around

Younger generations are re-discovering the excitement of playing games with someone IRL (in real life). A mix of nostalgia, accessibility, and innovation is driving the retro game revival.

Monopoly is the most popular board game, with over 275 million copies sold since 1935. Worldwide, there are over 500 million players. It also holds the Guinness World Record for having the most people playing at once (over 900!). Monopoly’s lowest popularity occurred during World War II when the war effort eliminated metal tokens and disrupted the game’s production in many countries. In 2025, 37% of U.S. consumers reporting playing it. The Pop Culture Hall of Fame inducted Monopoly as a Brand for 2025.

Mahjong is gaining popularity among young people, particularly Gen Z and Millennials, becoming a trendy social activity and a way to build community. Over the past year, interest has surged, partly driven by social media content and a desire to connect in person rather than online. Events like mahjong nights in cities such as San Francisco are drawing young crowds, blending tradition with modern socializing. Even interior designers are noticing the trend, with more requests for mahjong tables in home projects. The game’s nostalgic appeal, especially for young Asian Americans, has also contributed to its rising popularity.

Classic Games Reimagined

Many older games have been re-released with updated components, streamlined rules, or digital integrations, making them more appealing to today’s audiences. Additionally, the rise of board game cafes, streaming platforms, and social media has reintroduced these titles to new generations.

Chess, both as a game and a digital experience, is experiencing a renaissance in 2026, driven by the fusion of AI, esports, and the timeless appeal of strategy. The integration of AI into chess has not only enhanced how players learn and improve but also reignited global interest in the game as a digital sport. Magnus Carlsen, the world-renowned chess champion, has publicly stated that chess is “made for the digital age,” emphasizing its adaptability and relevance in today’s tech-driven world.

Catan (Settlers of Catan), Codenames, Dungeons and Dragons, Ticket to Ride, War of the Ring, Root, Dixit, and Azul are all seeing similar adaptations.

Card Games Going Digital

Card games are experiencing a resurgence, both in digital and physical formats.

Classic card games are benefiting from streamlined interfaces and the ability to play online, making them more appealing to both nostalgic players and younger audiences. Even retro and party-style card games are seeing a revival, blending nostalgia with modern accessibility.

The rise of digital card games is being driven by their convenience and accessibility, allowing players to enjoy quick matches that fit into busy schedules. This trend is reflected in the growing popularity of titles like Pokémon TCG and Hearthstone, which continue to attract new and returning players.

The physical trading card game (TCG) market is thriving, with a projected value of $11.8 billion by 2030, up from $7.8 billion in 2025, signaling robust growth and renewed interest.

This comeback isn’t just about nostalgia—it’s about adaptability. Digital card games, in particular, align with the way people play today, offering bite-sized experiences that fit into modern lifestyles.

Puzzles

Puzzles of all sorts are attracting new fans as a preferred way to unwind and reconnect with tactile, screen-free activities.

Vintage and wooden jigsaw puzzles are making a comeback, especially among seniors, due to their emotional and mental benefits.

Round wooden puzzle designs and 3D puzzles are also gaining popularity in 2025.

Hobbies Go Around and Come Around

This retro movement is often referred to as Granny hobbies. According to an NBC video, as social media fatigue grows among Gen Z, many are turning to “old fashioned” hobbies as a way to disconnect from screens and spend more time offline doing traditional crafts. “Grandma hobby” lovers embrace the homemade: décor, meals, and vintage household items.

  • Fiber arts, from cross-stitch to needlework
  • Gardening
  • Baking from scratch
  • Calligraphy
  • Knitting
  • Gardening and plant care
  • Pottery
  • Canning and preserving

The appeal lies not just in nostalgia but in the tangible joy of creating something with your hands and the mental health benefits of slowing down. Young people are turning to old-school hobbies to get off their phones.

Fashion Goes Around and Comes Around

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According to my reading, fashion is embracing nostalgia in 2026, with vintage styles from the 1970s, 1980s, and 1990s leading the trends, but occasionally going back even farther.

Some of the most likely vintage trends include pillbox hats, shell jewelry, tassels, bold animal prints like leopard and tiger, plus vibrant colors such as cobalt blue.

The 1970s are particularly popular, with flared skirts and boho chic.

Trends from the 1980s are reappearing: bold patterns, layered accessories, and statement outerwear. Chocolate brown is a key color, reflecting a broader movement toward rich, earthy tones and expressive designs.

Fashion houses predict that corset tops, especially those from designers like Jean Paul Gaultier, are predicted to be big in 2026. Tassel necklaces and vintage-inspired handbags, such as those from Louis Vuitton, are also expected to be everywhere, offering a touch of retro glamour.

Bottom Line: What’s old is new again!

SUPER GLUE TO THE RESCUE!

I recently started using Gorilla Glue brand super glue on my perennially split thumbnail. Dissatisfied with the results of nail glues, I thought, “Why not?”

nail fixed by super glue

Of course, gluing the thumbnail of my dominant hand meant I couldn’t treat it as I would the food processor handle or jewelry repair, but worth a try.

To my disappointment, Gorilla Glue doesn’t hold much longer than nail glue under these circumstances. On the other hand, it doesn’t dry shiny and is thus less noticeable, so it’s now my preferred choice.

Super Glue History

I know a gazillion bits of random info, for example that Post-It notes were created to be a bookmark that could stick and re-stick without damage. Another such bit of information was that super glue was created during the Viet Nam War for closing wounds. As it turns out, I was right about Post-Its but wrong about super glue.

Dr. Harry Coover Jr.

Super glue, or cyanoacrylate adhesive, was discovered in 1942 by Dr. Harry Coover Jr while searching for clear plastic materials for gun sights during WWII; it was a failure because it stuck to everything it touched, including the equipment, test materials, and fingers.

In 1958, while working as an Eastman Kodak researcher, Coover (along with Fred Joyner) recognized its commercial potential and began marketing it to consumers as “Super Glue,” a name that became synonymous with fast-acting adhesives. It’s incredibly useful in industrial and home use for bonding a huge array of materials including plastic, metal, wood, ceramics, and skin.

So how did the Vietnam War get into my brain scramble? During the Vietnam War, spray-form super glue was used as a temporary fix to seal wounds and stabilize injured soldiers before further treatment. At that time, it did not yet have FDA approval for medical use.

Super Glue Uses

Gorilla brand super glue

I don’t know how many other people use cyanoacrylate adhesive on human nails, but uses abound—some more, some less expected. Here are a few of mine.

If you do an online search, you’ll find many lists of uses, from forensic to veterinary. The adhesive market is competitive and diverse, with brands catering to different applications and industries. If you have a particular need—say, to glue plastic—you can find recommendations.

The Chicago Tribune rated the Best Super Glues of 2025. The top three were Gorilla Glue (Best of the Best), Super Glue (Best for the Buck), and Loctite (fastest drying).

Bottom Line: In my opinion, super glue is a household must-have.

THE WORLD OF TEA

I—and perhaps others—associate tea drinking with the British Isles. Way too narrow! India is the world’s largest tea-drinking nation, although the per capita consumption of tea is modest (26 oz per year). Türkiye, with 5lb 8oz of tea consumed per person per year, is the world’s greatest per capita consumer.

According to Wikipedia, after plain water, tea is the most widely consumed drink in the world. According to Tea Bloom, people consume 100 million cups every day. However, Big Heart Tea estimates the number to be closer to three billion cups of tea per day. In any event, in 2023, global tea consumption was more than 14 million pounds

Origins of Tea

Emperor Shen Nong, discoverer of tea

Legend has it that in 2737 BCE, Chinese Emperor Shen Nong discovered tea when leaves from a wild tree blew into his pot of boiling water. He found the flavor refreshing, the beginning of tea’s journey through history. Whether myth or reality, this serendipitous discovery has affected millions of daily routines.

People in ancient East Asia ate tea for hundreds, perhaps thousands, of years before ever drinking it. They would nibble on the leaves raw, add them to soups or greens, or ferment and chew them.

Camellia sinensis tea plant

Tea drinking may have begun in the region of Yunnan, where people originally used it for medicinal purposes. Although people have assumed—and asserted—health benefits throughout history, there is no high-quality evidence showing that drinking tea provides significant benefits other than (possibly) increasing alertness, due to the caffeine in the tea leaves. Caffeine makes up about 3% of tea’s dry weight, which translates to between 30 and 90 milligrams per 8.5 US fl oz cup, depending on the type (black has more caffeine than green or white), brand, and brewing method.

Historians believe that people in Sichuan began boiling tea leaves for a concentrated drink without the addition of other leaves or herbs, producing a bitter, stimulating drink, rather than a medicinal concoction.

Archeologists discovered the earliest physical evidence of tea in 2016 in the mausoleum of Emperor Jing in Xi’an, who died in 141 BCE. Han dynasty emperors drank tea from the genus Camellia as early as the second century BCE.

In ancient China, people pressed tea leaves into bricks for use as currency during trade or as a form of tribute. This practice underscores the value and importance of tea in historical societies. These tea bricks were useful for trading goods, paying taxes, or as dowries.

Tea in Europe

Portuguese priests and merchants introduced tea to Europe during the 16th century. The earliest European reference to tea, written as chiai, came from Delle navigationi e viaggi written by Venetian Giambattista Ramusio in 1545.

During the 17th century, drinking tea became fashionable among the British upper classes. Shortly after, British aristocrats started to plant tea on a large scale in India, where it had previously served only as a medicine.

Garaway’s coffee house in London first sold tea in 1657. Samuel Pepys wrote of tasting tea in his diary in 1660. Catherine of Braganza took the tea-drinking habit to the English court when she married Charles II in 1662. Still, tea was not widely consumed in the British Isles until the 18th century.

British drinkers preferred to add sugar and milk to black tea, and black tea overtook green tea in popularity in the 1720s. In Britain and Ireland, people initially viewed it as a luxury item for special occasions, such as religious festivals, wakes, and domestic work gatherings.

The price in Europe fell steadily during the 19th century, especially after Indian tea began to arrive in large quantities; by the late 19th century, tea had become an everyday beverage for all levels of society.

The popularity of tea played a role in U.S. history: the Tea Act of 1773 provoked the Boston Tea Party that escalated into the American Revolution.

In fact, John Adams called tea a “Traitor’s Drink.” Sentiments like this led to a 10-year boycott of tea altogether. Many American colonists switched to growing and drinking coffee.

Varieties of Tea

There are many types of tea; some have a cooling, slightly bitter, and astringent flavor, while others have profiles that include sweet, nutty, floral, or grassy notes.

Most Camellia sinensis leaves are harvested when the plant is about three to five feet tall. If the growers leave the plant to grow, it can turn into a massive tree that can soar over 50 feet tall!

The term herbal tea refers to drinks not made from Camellia sinensis. They are infusions of fruit, leaves, or other plant parts, such as steeps of rosehip, chamomile, or rooibos. These are not to be confused with tea made from the tea plant.

Darjeeling tea only grows in one specific region of India. The Darjeeling district is about 70 square acres and sits at the base of the Himalayas.

According to legend, British aristocrat and Prime Minister Charles Grey was given tea infused with bergamot oil. He asked merchants to recreate it, and they named the tea “Earl Grey” for the man who loved it so dearly.

Pu-Erh teas stay usable even after decades in storage. Makers of pu-erh press fermented and aged leaves into pucks and shapes that they then wrap and store.

Ludwig Roselius developed the first commercial decaffeination process. He began marketing decaf coffee (Kaffee HAG) in Europe by about 1905 and later in the United States in 1923.

Decaffeinated tea is very popular for those want the taste and feel of tea without the stimulant. To make decaffeinated tea at home, steep your leaves for twenty seconds to one minute. This releases most of the caffeine. Pour out the caffeinated water and fill your teapot or kettle again to re-steep the decaffeinated tea to the desired strength.

Modern Convenience

“Instant tea” (similar to freeze-dried instant coffee ) is a modern alternative to brewed tea. Food scientists developed it in the 1930s, though Nestlé introduced the first commercial product in 1946. Redi-Tea introduced instant iced tea in 1953. Additives such as chai, vanilla, honey or fruit, are popular, as is powdered milk.

During World War II, British and Canadian command issued soldiers an instant tea in their composite ration (“compo”) packs. These blocks of instant tea, powdered milk, and sugar were not always well received!

In 1981, Japanese brewers introduced canned tea ready to drink. PT Sinar Sosro, an Indonesian company, introduced the first bottled tea 1969 with the brand name Teh Botol Sosro (or Sosro bottled tea). In 1983, Swiss-based Bischofszell Food Ltd. was the first company to bottle iced tea on an industrial scale.

Tea Culture

It is nearly impossible to overstate the importance of tea as a cultural phenomenon. Many countries with a history of growing or importing tea have developed social patterns around drinking it. Turkish merchants share glasses of çay before starting any serious deal-making. Traditional Chinese doctors often prescribe precise infusions of 茶 for a variety of ailments. Vietnamese couples serve trà sen to older family members as part of a Đám Hỏi wedding ceremony. Tibetans will drink up to 60 cups of yak butter bho jha every day.

British Teatime

When we think of teatime, what comes to mind is likely some variation of British afternoon tea. It comes in many shapes and forms, from an afternoon cup of a favorite blend to a formal event with multiple teas, scones, clotted cream, and finger sandwiches. Afternoon tea —also known as “low tea” for the low coffee tables it’s served on — was enjoyed by royalty and the upper-class. 

Social events like parties and dances grew out of the afternoon teatime custom. People invite friends and neighbors for socializing, music, and dancing, followed by sharing afternoon tea.

In Britain, high tea is very different. Common among the lower classes, it is a hearty evening meal served at a high dining table with a pot of tea.

Japanese Teaism

In the 1500s, the tea master Sen no Rikyu perfected the Japanese tea ceremony, elevating it to an art form. In Japanese, the word “teaism” is more accurate than the English “ceremony”, as it more closely captures the religious and philosophical elements of the occasion.

Zen Buddhism and Shinto Buddhism both influenced teaism, as seen in the architecture of teahouses and ritual purification steps.

The most formal style of chaji occurs around noon during cool weather. Guests and hosts follow a precise order of steps, including reflecting on a scroll or flower arrangement, eating special foods, purifying and arranging utensils, and passing a cup of matcha.

Making Tea

2000 tea leaves make one pound of tea—or 200-250 cups. There are a variety of methods for steeping and enjoying a hot brew.

The process starts with heating water, often in a dedicated kettle or samovar. Connoisseurs will take care to heat the water to precise temperatures for optimal brewing. White tea steeps best in water 160-180 degrees; black tea steeps best in water 200-212 degrees.

By measuring loose tea leaves individually for use, the “brewer” has maximum control over strength and flavor. Strainers, tea balls, tea presses, filtered teapots, and infusion bags prevent loose leaves from floating in the tea and over-brewing. Too inconvenient?

Tea bags and balls hold leaves while allowing for hot water to circulate. Most conventional teabags are made with materials that don’t decompose, but it is possible to find reusable or biodegradable bags. Tea balls are small metal or porcelain containers for holding leaves while infusing, with a spring or latch holding them closed.

On August 26, 1901, the two Wisconsin women, Roberta C. Lawson and Mary Molaren, filed a patent (US723287) for a unique (at the time) ‘Tea-Leaf Holder’ that is remarkably similar to the modern tea bag. Statistics show that as many as 98 percent of Americans and 96 percent of U.K. residents use tea bags. Tea-drinkers also use them extensively in India, Japan, and elsewhere.

Tea Sets

Russian tea samovar and podstakannik
Russian samovar and podstakannik

A tea set typically includes everything needed for steeping and serving hot tea. At a minimum, this may just be a teapot and a cup.

  • A full British set will include several cups and saucers, a sugar bowl, a milk jug, and a few teaspoons.
  • A Turkish set will include a çaydanlık pot, ince belli glasses, spoons, and a bowl for beet sugar cubes.
  • A Russian set will include a samovar, containers for hot and cold water, several bowls for a variety of sweeteners, spoons, and either porcelain cups and saucers or glasses with metal podstakannik holders.

Some teapots include a mesh or strainer on the inside of the spout to catch soggy leaves before they can tumble into the cup.

no-drip tea pots
If you follow me on Facebook, you already know that these 3 teapots are the best no-drip pots ever. 

Interesting Tea Facts

The word tea itself has multiple meanings: beverage, leaves, plant, social event, evening meal, slang for marijuana, and slang for personal or secret information.

Tasseography—or tasseomancy—is a fortune-telling method that a trained practitioner can perform with tea leaves, coffee grounds, and even wine sediment. A “Highland Seer” wrote the book Reading Tea Leaves in 1881. Tasseographers still use it as a guide today.

According to the Tea Association of the U.S.A. (yes, that’s a thing), 84% of the tea consumed in America is black—of that, 75-85% is served as iced tea. 

Although tea originates in the southern regions of China, today it grows anywhere with the correct climate. There are plantations in India, Sri Lanka, the Republic of Georgia, Kenya, Vietnam, Türkiye, and South Africa. It’s even grown in South Carolina and Hawaii!

Furniture and Accessories

The popularity of tea and its role in social functions has led to the creation of specialized paraphernalia to aid in its enjoyment. In English, we refer to a whole class of towels, spoons, carts, and tables specifically by their association with brewed Camellia sinensis leaves.

Tea caddy

In the 18th century, most tea caddies had a lock, the key kept by the lady of the house to prevent theft. Early artisans made these containers of various materials, including blue and white porcelain from China. Later caddies were typically made of wood adorned with brass, ivory, tortoiseshell, and other elements. 

A tea chest can mean a synonym for a caddy. Alternatively, it can refer to a square wooden case, usually lined with sheet lead or tin, used for shipping the dried leaves.

Tea pets

Tea pets are tiny clay statues that have no soul when you purchase them. Over time, as you pour tea — which has a soul — over them, the soul within your tea transfers to your pet.

A teapoy is a piece of furniture, originally a three-legged table. The name originally came from the Hindi word tīn, meaning three, and the Persian word pāi, meaning foot. By association with the word “tea” in the middle of the 19th century, it is also used to describe a table with a container for tea, or a table for holding a tea service. In the 19th century, the word was also sometimes applied to a large porcelain or earthenware tea caddy, and more frequently to the small bottles, often of enamel, which fitted into receptacles in the caddy and actually contained the tea.

Bottom Line: January is National Hot Tea Month. There’s more to tea than you probably knew!

DICTIONARY LOVE

Given the season, I was tempted to write about New Year’s resolutions. Not wanting to repeat myself, I reviewed my blogs from 12/30/16, 1/1/19, and 1/3/23. And then I realized that all sorts of commentators and media were talking about how many people make resolutions (between 34 and 62%), who makes them (younger people), how many people keep them (fewer than half), what the resolutions are about (fitness, finances)… I decided I have nothing to add this year.

In the meantime, the Wall Street Journal recently (Dec. 20-21, 2025 issue) had a long article about the Merriam-Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary. I venture to suggest that when asked about a dictionary, that’s the one most people think of. For generations, a copy has been a go-to gift for high school and college graduates, as well as miscellaneous other gift-giving occasions. In the late 1980s, Merriam-Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary was on the Times best-seller list for 155 consecutive weeks; 57 million copies were sold, a number believed to be second only to sales of the Bible in the U.S.

Merriam Webster Collegiate Dictionary

And people hold on to them! My husband still has one from his last year as an English professor, the 9th edition, published in 1983.

Partying with half a dozen other writers, I asked whether they still use physical dictionaries. NO! Not one. They all look online (as do I). Still, physical dictionaries haven’t yet gone the way of the dodo bird: last year Merriam-Webster sold nearly 1.5 million physical dictionaries (according to that WSJ article).

I love dictionaries, so I researched their history for this blog. They have a fascinating (to me) history that reflects the evolution of language, literacy, and knowledge organization.

Dictionary History

Dictionaries have had a long run!

Pages from the Erya, in the Chinese Dictionary Museum

The earliest surviving monolingual dictionary is the Eyra, which Chinese scholars wrote in the 3rd century BCE. Translators have interpreted the title characters (爾雅) as “Progress Towards Correctness”, “The Semantic Approximator”, and “Approaching Elegance.”

Modern dictionaries evolved from early glossaries and bilingual word lists. Renaissance glossaries and later works like the Catholicon (1287) and Covarrubias’s Tesoro de la lengua (1611) paved the way for modern single-language dictionaries and standardized national lexicons. By the 18th–19th centuries, publishers were offering monolingual dictionaries, including comprehensive English dictionaries.

Early Beginnings

The earliest known attempts at word lists and glossaries date back to ancient Mesopotamia (around 2300 BCE). Scribes learning languages created Sumerian and Akkadian bilingual word lists.

Classical Antiquity

In ancient Greece and Rome, scholars compiled lists of difficult or rare words, often to assist with understanding classical texts. For example, Philo of Byblos and Aelius Donatus created early glossaries. Philitas of Cos wrote Disorderly Words to help his fellow Greeks decipher odd and archaic vocabulary, particularly in the works of Homer.

Medieval Period

During the Middle Ages, dictionaries were often glossaries—lists of difficult words with explanations—in Latin and vernacular languages. They were primarily tools for scholars and clergy.

The rise of vernacular languages in Europe led to more dictionaries aimed at explaining Latin terms or translating between Latin and local languages.

Renaissance and Early Modern Era

Close-up from the 1755 edition of Samuel Johnson’s Dictionary of the English Language

The invention of the printing press in the 15th century revolutionized dictionary production.

In 1604, Robert Cawdrey published the first English dictionary, titled A Table Alphabeticall, containing about 2,500 words with simple definitions.

The 17th and 18th centuries saw the rise of more comprehensive dictionaries. Samuel Johnson’s Dictionary of the English Language (1755) was a landmark work, combining definitions with literary quotations and shaping English lexicography.

19th and 20th Centuries: The Oxford English Dictionary

Once upon a time, when asked what one book I’d want to have if stranded on a desert island, I didn’t even have to consider: “The Oxford English Dictionary, not in the condensed form.”

Actually, that answer could be challenged. I have the compact edition, and even that is two big, fat volumes (boxed, with a magnifying glass). The hard cover edition had 20 volumes, 21,728 pages. The OED is now being completely revised to produce an updated Third Edition.

What appealed to me was both the comprehensiveness of the listings and the inclusion of the history of each word.

The 19th century brought the creation of historical and etymological dictionaries, like the Oxford English Dictionary (OED) I discussed above, which began publication in 1884 and aimed to document the history and development of every English word!

Dictionary Types

Dictionaries expanded to cover specialized fields, slang, and dialects. The 20th century saw the rise of bilingual dictionaries and learner’s dictionaries to support language education and globalization.

I started collecting dictionaries when I started writing fiction. I have shelf after shelf filled with them!

When one thinks of specialized dictionaries, medicine and law come immediately to mind. But for my purposes, I needed the common language.—i.e., slang. To seem authentic—real, if you will—the thoughts and dialogue of characters are crucial.

One of my favorite dictionaries is Talk the Talk: The Slang of 65 American Subcultures. Groups from stamp collectors to people living in Antarctica, from Birders to con artists, to Wiccans, witches, and neo-pagans are included. It’s a fun read even if you aren’t a writer!

If you are a fan of Patrick O’Brien, Aubrey and Maturin series, there’s a dictionary for you!
I’ve published half a dozen short stories set during the American Civil War, and the Civil War Dictionary was invaluable for everything from what women’s underwear was called to what prostitutes were called, to … whatever.
I even have a dictionary of South African English—which I’ve never actually used but love having!

The Dictionary in the Digital Age

The late 20th and early 21st centuries introduced electronic dictionaries and online databases, making dictionaries more accessible and interactive. Platforms like Merriam-Webster Online and the OED Online offer constantly updated entries and multimedia content.

Artificial intelligence and corpus linguistics have enabled dictionaries to be more descriptive and data-driven, reflecting real-world language use. But when looking for a word, a meaning, or a spelling online, that is what you will get: that one word. By contrast, according to the WSJ article cited above, “One of the pleasures of having a dictionary at hand is the serendipity of idle browsing—of progressing from ‘crankshaft’ to ‘cranky’ to ‘cranbog’…” Online, you don’t get more than you ask for.

Bottom Line: For some of us, online searches will never replace physical dictionaries in our hearts.