CHILDREN’S PASSIONS

A friend recently mentioned that her niece is obsessed with space and has been excitedly following everything Artemis II she can find. Maybe she’ll become part of the space program someday. Many astronauts have shown a lifelong passion for space, often showing interest in astronomy, space exploration, or science from a young age.

Early Lives of Astronauts

Children's Passions Mercury Seven

Alan Shepard, Gus Grissom, John Glenn, and Wally Schirra are among the Mercury Seven astronauts who were always interested in space. Other notable examples include:

Neil Armstrong: The first person to walk on the Moon, Armstrong was fascinated by flight and space from childhood, inspired by the early days of aviation and space exploration.

Sally Ride: The first American woman in space, she developed an interest in physics and space science early on, inspired by the possibilities of space travel.

Mae Jemison: The first African American woman in space, Jemison was passionate about science and space from an early age, motivated by her love for learning and exploration.

Chris Hadfield: Known for his social media presence from the International Space Station (ISS), Hadfield was inspired by space exploration throughout his life and pursued a career as an astronaut with great enthusiasm.

Yuri Gagarin: The first human in space, Gagarin was drawn to aviation and space as a young man, inspired by the possibilities of human flight.

Common Children’s Passions

It isn’t just space, of course. Children often become passionate about activities that stem from their inherent talents and strengths.

Children's Passions Venus Serena Williams

Running, swimming, biking, team sports, or just playing outside can be a source of excitement and energy for many kids. The Williams sisters began playing tennis at very young ages, with Serena starting around three years old, Venus around age four, coached by their father Richard Williams.

Pretending to be superheroes, explorers, or characters from stories fuels creativity and social skills.

Music and Poetry

Drawing, painting, crafting, music, dance, and storytelling often capture children’s imaginations, allowing them to express themselves and experiment with ideas. Mozart began playing the keyboard and violin and composing music at the age of five.

Cellist Yo Yo Ma began violin lessons at age four and performed Bach Concertos in his first concert at age five at the University of Paris.

British singer Adele developed a passion for voices when she was four years old and published her first track when she was just 17.

Reading and Writing

Books and stories open new worlds and ideas, often igniting a love for reading and learning. Research indicates that reading fiction enhances empathy in children.

The poet Alexander Pope was a child genius, known for translating major works and writing epics in his early teenage years. He was 12 years old when he wrote his first major piece entitled Ode on Solitude. When he was 21 years old, he published Pastorals.

Terry Pratchett started writing as a child and published his first short story in his school magazine at age 13. He was only 15 at the time of his first commercial publication, “Business Rivals.”

S. E. (Susan Eloise) Hinton wrote The Outsiders when she was only 16 years old.

Many young authors can be found online.

Building and Making

Constructing with blocks, LEGO, or other materials sparks passion in kids who enjoy problem-solving and hands-on creation. The LEGO company partners with schools to encourage children’s building passions and STEAM programs.

Kautilya Pandit, an Indian prodigy who demonstrated remarkable engineering skills at a young age, including building models of bridges and other structures. His achievements in engineering concepts at a young age are remarkable.

Science and Biology

Many children are fascinated by animals, plants, and the outdoors. This can include pets, wildlife, insects, and exploring natural environments like parks or gardens.

Charles Darwin showed an early interest in natural history, collecting beetles and other specimens as a child. His curiosity about the natural world grew during his youth, eventually leading to his groundbreaking work on evolution.

From a young age, Jane Goodall was fascinated by animals and Africa. She began observing and studying chimpanzees as a teenager, which developed into her lifelong career in primatology and conservation.

Rachel Carson’s early fascination with marine life led to her influential environmental writings.

Some children develop an early passion for science, asking questions about how things work, conducting simple experiments, or exploring technology. One of my granddaughters put herself to sleep by mentally solving math problems to the base six instead of base ten. Will she become a famous mathematician? It doesn’t matter!

Supporting Children’s Passions

Supporting children’s passions matters—even when it has nothing to do with career achievements.

Encouraging children’s passions nurtures confidence, curiosity, and resilience. It also helps children develop skills aligned with their interests, which can grow into lifelong hobbies or activities.

Nurturing children’s passionate interests is like watering a young seedling, helping it grow into a strong, vibrant tree. And like any tree, it takes time!

Here are some ways to encourage and support children’s enthusiasms.

Create a Supportive Environment

Provide resources: Books, tools, materials, or access to classes related to their interests.

Designate a dedicated space: A cozy corner or area where they can explore freely.

Celebrate curiosity: Show genuine interest and ask questions about what excites them.

Encourage Exploration and Experimentation

Allow freedom: Let children try different activities without pressure to excel immediately.

Value the process over results: Focus on learning and joy rather than just outcomes.

Support mistakes as learning: Help them see failures as stepping stones, not setbacks.

Be an Active Participant

Engage together: Join in their activities occasionally to deepen connection and show support.

Find role models: Introduce them to people or stories that inspire their passion.

Encourage sharing: Help them express their interests through presentations, art, or storytelling.

Balance Passion with Well-being

Respect their pace: Avoid pushing too hard; let their interest evolve naturally.

Encourage social connections: Foster friendships with peers who share similar passions.

Promote diverse experiences: While focusing on passion, encourage trying other activities to develop well-roundedness.

Long-Term Support

Set realistic goals: Help children set achievable steps to deepen their skills.

Provide opportunities: Enroll them in clubs, camps, or competitions aligned with their interests.

Recognize growth: Celebrate milestones and progress to build confidence. By nurturing children’s passions with patience and encouragement, you help cultivate not only skills but also confidence, creativity, and a lifelong love of learning.

Remember that such passions emerge spontaneously, and can be anything. For example

  • Taekwando
  • Ballet
  • Dragons
  • Dinosaurs
  • Construction equipment
  • Etc., etc., etc.

Bottom Line: Children’s passions reflect their natural curiosity, creativity, and desire to explore the world around them. Encouraging them promotes lifelong learning.

ARE YOU TOO YOUNG FOR THAT? OR TOO OLD?

Are you old enough to do that in the United States? It all depends on what “that” is—and where!

In the United States, age requirements for various activities are set by federal and state laws. They vary depending on the activity and location.

Here’s an overview of age thresholds for key activities.

Age Limit by Federal Law

In general, anything under Federal jurisdiction is consistent across states. It’s the areas under state control that vary—and vary widely!

Civic Participation

Age Limit voting

Voting

The minimum age to vote in federal, state, and local elections is 18 years old. The 26th Amendment, ratified in 1971, standardized the voting age for federal and state elections.

Jury Duty

The minimum age to serve on a jury is also 18 years old.

Military Service

The minimum age to enlist in the U.S. military is 17 with parental consent, 18 without.

Drinking and Smoking

Drinking Alcohol

The National Minimum Drinking Age Act of 1984 set 21 as the legal drinking age nationwide.

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Smoking and Tobacco Use

In 2019, a federal law raised the minimum age for purchasing tobacco and vaping products to 21.

Driving Age Limit

The minimum age limit for driving varies by state, by vehicle use, and by level of supervision.

A driver must be 16 years old in North Dakota, South Dakota, and Montana for a full driver’s license. South Dakota and North Dakota drivers can get a learner’s permit at 14 and drive their parents’ car at 15. The age limit is 16.5, 17, or 18 in other states, though most states allow a learner’s permit at 15-16.

Some states offer “hardship licenses” for teens who can prove they need the ability to drive independently earlier than their peers. The family may rely on the teen to drive siblings, to go to school, to work in a family business (such as a farm), or for long-term medical reasons.

Driving Farm Vehicles

There is no specific federal age limit for driving farm vehicles on private farmland.

Age Limit Farm Vehicles

Many states allow youth as young as 14 or 16 to operate farm machinery on private property or on public roads under certain conditions (e.g., with supervision or during harvest season). South Dakota and Kansas permit 14-year-olds to drive farm vehicles with parental permission.

Generally, children under 12 are prohibited from driving farm tractors on public roads, but they may be allowed on private property under supervision. Some states have specific child labor laws for agriculture that allow minors aged 10 or 11 to work and operate certain farm equipment outside school hours under prescribed conditions, reflecting a recognition of agricultural work as a special case.

On public roads, the minimum age to drive farm equipment is often 16, aligning more closely with standard driving laws. However, many states have exemptions for farm use that allow younger drivers to have very limited public road use.

Age of Consent for Sex

Thirty states legally allow individuals aged 16 and older to consent to sexual activity, though some may have close-in-age exemptions or additional conditions that vary by state.

Colorado, Illinois, Louisiana, Missouri, New York, Texas, and Wyoming require teens to be 17 years old.

Age 18 is the law in Arizona, California, Delaware, Florida, Idaho, Kentucky, North Dakota, Oklahoma, Oregon, Tennessee, Utah, Virginia, and Wisconsin.

Marriage Age Limit

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The minimum legal age for marriage is a bit complicated in the US, depending on the state and certain special circumstances. The trend has been to adjust the general marriage age downward and to raise the age for women to that of men. Until 1971, approximately 80% of states had a general marriage age of 18 for women, while for men the general marriage age was 21 in approximately 85% of states. In the U.S., 315,000 girls under the age of 18 were married between 2000 and 2021.

The minimum age at which a person can marry, with or without parental consent or other authorization, is set by each state and territory, either by statute or where the common law applies.

General Marriage Age

The general marriage age (lacking authorization for an exception) is the age of majority, 18 years of age in all states except two. In Nebraska, the general marriage age is 19. In Mississippi, the general marriage age is 21.

Alabama has them switched: the general marriage age is 18 while the age of majority is 19.

Underage Exceptions

When at least one of the marriage partners is under the general marriage age, the marriage is typically allowed with parental or judicial consent or both. The minimum underage marriage age, when all mitigating circumstances are taken into account, commonly ranges from 15 to 17.

  • As of April 2026, four states do not set any minimum age for marriage: California, New Mexico, Oklahoma, and Mississippi.
  • Hawaii and Kansas allow teens to marry at age 15 with parental and judicial approval.
  • Sixteen states completely ban underage marriage: Connecticut, Delaware , Massachusetts, Minnesota, New Jersey, New York, Pennsylvania, Vermont, Michigan, Rhode Island, Washington, Virginia, New Hampshire, Maine, Oregon, and Missouri.
  • Many states include age gap specifications in their laws around marriage age. People over a certain age (20, 21, or 22) cannot marry a person under the age of majority.

Gambling

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The age limit varies by state and type of gambling, generally 18 or 21 years old.

The states that allow legal gambling at the age of 18 are Florida, Georgia, Idaho, Minnesota, Montana, Oklahoma, and Washington.

In the U.S., lotteries, bingos, some tribal casinos, horse-racing, and sports betting are often allowed at 18. Casino table games and slot machines typically require players to be 21 or older.

Employment Age Limit

The minimum age for most non-agricultural work under federal child labor laws is 14, with restrictions on hours and types of work. Much like driving farm vehicles, the age limits for working on a farm come with many nuances and exceptions. The youngest workers—typically those aged 14 and 15—have the most restrictions.

Jobs with the Lowest Age Limit (14 or 15)

Office and Clerical Work

Cashiering and Sales (not operating heavy machinery)

Bagging and Carrying Out Customers’ Orders

Clean-up Work (floors, tables, and equipment, with restrictions on hazardous chemicals)

Kitchen Work in Restaurants (minors are still not allowed to cook with dangerous equipment like fryers or ovens)

Library and Museum Work (shelving books or guiding visitors)

Delivering Newspapers (with some state-specific rules)

Key Restrictions for Young Workers

  • Cannot operate heavy machinery or power-driven equipment (with some exceptions like cash registers)
  • Limited to working outside school hours
  • Limited work hours on school days and during the school year (e.g., max 3 hours on school days, 8 hours on non-school days)
  • Work permitted only between 7 a.m. and 7 p.m. (extended to 9 p.m. from June 1 through Labor Day)

Jobs Not Allowed for the Youngest Workers

  • Manufacturing or mining
  • Construction or excavation
  • Operating motor vehicles or power-driven machinery (See farm children for exception)
  • Cooking with open flames or fryers
  • Working in warehouses or loading/unloading trucks

For 16- and 17-year-olds, more jobs open up, including some with power-driven machinery, but hazardous jobs remain prohibited.

Entertainment

Macaulay Culkin

The rules around children employed in entertainment are again full of exceptions and nuance. The US has come quite a long way since Judy Garland was given amphetamines and forced to work 72 hour shifts while filming The Wizard of Oz. Laws in different states mandate things like rest breaks, having an educator and guardian on site, trust funds, on-set conditions, and total hours worked for young performers.

In recent years, legislators have been grappling with the thorny issue of how to classify children who earn money for parents filming them in the home and posting online. If a parent’s primary income derives from documenting a child’s activities, tantrums, and play, which laws should protect the welfare of that child?

Purchasing Firearms

Age limits around purchasing firearms varies by type of gun and from state to state. The minimum age to purchase handguns from licensed dealers is 21 years old. However, many states allow people to purchase rifles and shotguns is 18 years old.

Despite this, based on reports from more than 297,000 adolescents in the U.S. ages 12 to 17, about 4.6 percent of teens carried handguns in 2019. Carrying a handgun is become significantly more common.

Boys reported carrying at a rate four times higher than girls — 6 percent versus 1.5 percent. Still, gun-carrying became twice as common among girls by the end of the study.

Watching R-Rated Movies

There is no federal law, but theaters typically require R-rated moviegoers to be 17 years old or accompanied by an adult.

Not in theaters? Nearly three-quarters of teens aged 13 to 17 have seen pornographic content online, with many exposed before their teen years.

Upper Age Limit

But minors aren’t the only ones affected by age limits. Several areas of life become illegal — or bureaucratically more difficult — for people above a certain age.

Some careers, including airline pilots, air traffic controllers, and some state judges have mandatory retirement ages. These tend to be careers that require fast reflexes or high mental engagement.

Other careers bar participants from joining past a certain age. Many law enforcement agencies will not accept new recruits if they are 30 or 40 years old. The various branches of the military have different limits on the age of new recruits. New Marines must be 28 or younger, but new members of the Army National Guard can be 42.

Most states will not allow a person to attend public schools past age 19, 20, or 21.

Driving is not illegal past a certain age, but states may require more regular and rigorous testing. Texas requires drivers over age 79 to renew their license in person and drivers over age 85 to renew their license every two years. Drivers in Maine over age 65 must renew their license every four years, complete with a vision test.

While there is no age cap on jury service, it is significantly easier for people above age 65 to request an age exemption.

Unofficial Upper Age Limits

Oscar Swahn

There are many areas of life that, though not barred to people above a certain age, become more difficult.

In the workplace, older employees may face age-based discrimination, particularly when trying to find a new job. This is especially prevalent in the tech sector, though it is very difficult to prove.

The individual bodies governing each sport in the Olympics determine qualifications, including age limits, if any. Many sports require participants to be above a certain age. At the 2026 Milano Cortina Games, age limits ranged from 13 for skeleton sledding to 21 for biathlon. There is no official upper age limit, but the physical demands of most sports practically restrict competition at the highest level to young adults. Oscar Swahn , a Swedish shooter, holds the record for being the oldest Olympic participant (age 72 in the 1920 Olympics) as well as the oldest medalist (he was 64 when he won gold in the 1912 Olympics).

Youth hostels may restrict residents above age 35 or 40, but this is often waived if an applicant appears laid-back and capable of clambering into an upper bunk.

Lego packages include a suggested age range to indicate the difficulty of building. Classic sets of non-specific bricks are marked as suitable for ages 4-99. Perhaps people lose the ability to enjoy Lego when they turn 100!

Bottom Line: Even within the United States, if you want to be legal, check relevant laws by state and activity.

WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND

It’s everywhere! What was once outdated, a thing of the past, is experiencing a resurgence of popularity. Younger generations are exploring things familiar to their grandparents. The trend seems to be driven by nostalgia and/or a desire to “unplug.”

Food Goes Around and Comes Around

Why the comeback? This trend is rooted in a desire for comfort, authenticity, and sustainability. Many of these dishes are inherently plant-forward, use whole ingredients, and minimize food waste—aligning with modern values of mindful eating.

Nostalgic recipes draw chefs and home cooks with their versatility and affordability, making them perfect for everything from weeknight dinners to festive gatherings. The America We Remember channel on YouTube has many videos explaining nostalgic recipes.

The revival of old-fashioned foods often blends nostalgia with modern twists. Beloved classics are making a comeback, inspired by grandma’s kitchen and retro kitchens alike.

Comforting Casseroles & One-Pot Meals

Many people are reimagining these low-mess meals with healthier ingredients or gourmet touches. Once staples of mid-century dinner tables, these dishes are now celebrated for their simplicity and heartwarming appeal. Home cooks and chefs alike seek to recreate the cozy, soul-satisfying meals of yesteryear.

Other Nostalgic Foods Coming Back

Wedge salad: iceberg lettuce gets respectable again (here because I didn’t want it to stand alone!)

Salisbury steak

Cream-based soups (like Cream of Mushroom or Chicken) are also reappearing on menus

Chili dogs, often elevated with artisanal buns, house-made chili, or organic dairy

Fondue

Retro Desserts with a Modern Twist

Wacky Cake (a Depression-era wonder made without eggs or milk)

Jell-O molds are becoming popular again for their playful, creative potential, which people often feature in themed dinner parties

Chocolate-chip cookies baked from scratch, with bakers experimenting with heirloom recipes and high-quality ingredients

Classic Drinks & Snacks

  • Orange Julius, a mall staple from the ’80s and ’90s, with modern versions blending retro flavors and fresh ingredients
  • Jolt Cola, with “all the sugar and twice the caffeine!”
  • Old Fashioned
  • Negroni
  • Cosmopolitan
    • Bars are reporting increased demand from both older fans reliving their youth and younger generations eager to experience the retro drink.

Vodka-based drinks such as Appletinis and French Martinis are also making a comeback, embraced for their simplicity and versatility.

Food and Wine has named the “Guilty Pleasure” cocktail trend featuring drinks like Cosmos, Lemon Drops, and Lychee Martinis as the 2025 Drink Trend of the Year, reflecting a broader appetite for fun, indulgent, and nostalgic flavors.

Games Go Around and Come Around

Younger generations are re-discovering the excitement of playing games with someone IRL (in real life). A mix of nostalgia, accessibility, and innovation is driving the retro game revival.

Monopoly is the most popular board game, with over 275 million copies sold since 1935. Worldwide, there are over 500 million players. It also holds the Guinness World Record for having the most people playing at once (over 900!). Monopoly’s lowest popularity occurred during World War II when the war effort eliminated metal tokens and disrupted the game’s production in many countries. In 2025, 37% of U.S. consumers reporting playing it. The Pop Culture Hall of Fame inducted Monopoly as a Brand for 2025.

Mahjong is gaining popularity among young people, particularly Gen Z and Millennials, becoming a trendy social activity and a way to build community. Over the past year, interest has surged, partly driven by social media content and a desire to connect in person rather than online. Events like mahjong nights in cities such as San Francisco are drawing young crowds, blending tradition with modern socializing. Even interior designers are noticing the trend, with more requests for mahjong tables in home projects. The game’s nostalgic appeal, especially for young Asian Americans, has also contributed to its rising popularity.

Classic Games Reimagined

Many older games have been re-released with updated components, streamlined rules, or digital integrations, making them more appealing to today’s audiences. Additionally, the rise of board game cafes, streaming platforms, and social media has reintroduced these titles to new generations.

Chess, both as a game and a digital experience, is experiencing a renaissance in 2026, driven by the fusion of AI, esports, and the timeless appeal of strategy. The integration of AI into chess has not only enhanced how players learn and improve but also reignited global interest in the game as a digital sport. Magnus Carlsen, the world-renowned chess champion, has publicly stated that chess is “made for the digital age,” emphasizing its adaptability and relevance in today’s tech-driven world.

Catan (Settlers of Catan), Codenames, Dungeons and Dragons, Ticket to Ride, War of the Ring, Root, Dixit, and Azul are all seeing similar adaptations.

Card Games Going Digital

Card games are experiencing a resurgence, both in digital and physical formats.

Classic card games are benefiting from streamlined interfaces and the ability to play online, making them more appealing to both nostalgic players and younger audiences. Even retro and party-style card games are seeing a revival, blending nostalgia with modern accessibility.

The rise of digital card games is being driven by their convenience and accessibility, allowing players to enjoy quick matches that fit into busy schedules. This trend is reflected in the growing popularity of titles like Pokémon TCG and Hearthstone, which continue to attract new and returning players.

The physical trading card game (TCG) market is thriving, with a projected value of $11.8 billion by 2030, up from $7.8 billion in 2025, signaling robust growth and renewed interest.

This comeback isn’t just about nostalgia—it’s about adaptability. Digital card games, in particular, align with the way people play today, offering bite-sized experiences that fit into modern lifestyles.

Puzzles

Puzzles of all sorts are attracting new fans as a preferred way to unwind and reconnect with tactile, screen-free activities.

Vintage and wooden jigsaw puzzles are making a comeback, especially among seniors, due to their emotional and mental benefits.

Round wooden puzzle designs and 3D puzzles are also gaining popularity in 2025.

Hobbies Go Around and Come Around

This retro movement is often referred to as Granny hobbies. According to an NBC video, as social media fatigue grows among Gen Z, many are turning to “old fashioned” hobbies as a way to disconnect from screens and spend more time offline doing traditional crafts. “Grandma hobby” lovers embrace the homemade: décor, meals, and vintage household items.

  • Fiber arts, from cross-stitch to needlework
  • Gardening
  • Baking from scratch
  • Calligraphy
  • Knitting
  • Gardening and plant care
  • Pottery
  • Canning and preserving

The appeal lies not just in nostalgia but in the tangible joy of creating something with your hands and the mental health benefits of slowing down. Young people are turning to old-school hobbies to get off their phones.

Fashion Goes Around and Comes Around

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According to my reading, fashion is embracing nostalgia in 2026, with vintage styles from the 1970s, 1980s, and 1990s leading the trends, but occasionally going back even farther.

Some of the most likely vintage trends include pillbox hats, shell jewelry, tassels, bold animal prints like leopard and tiger, plus vibrant colors such as cobalt blue.

The 1970s are particularly popular, with flared skirts and boho chic.

Trends from the 1980s are reappearing: bold patterns, layered accessories, and statement outerwear. Chocolate brown is a key color, reflecting a broader movement toward rich, earthy tones and expressive designs.

Fashion houses predict that corset tops, especially those from designers like Jean Paul Gaultier, are predicted to be big in 2026. Tassel necklaces and vintage-inspired handbags, such as those from Louis Vuitton, are also expected to be everywhere, offering a touch of retro glamour.

Bottom Line: What’s old is new again!

SUPER GLUE TO THE RESCUE!

I recently started using Gorilla Glue brand super glue on my perennially split thumbnail. Dissatisfied with the results of nail glues, I thought, “Why not?”

nail fixed by super glue

Of course, gluing the thumbnail of my dominant hand meant I couldn’t treat it as I would the food processor handle or jewelry repair, but worth a try.

To my disappointment, Gorilla Glue doesn’t hold much longer than nail glue under these circumstances. On the other hand, it doesn’t dry shiny and is thus less noticeable, so it’s now my preferred choice.

Super Glue History

I know a gazillion bits of random info, for example that Post-It notes were created to be a bookmark that could stick and re-stick without damage. Another such bit of information was that super glue was created during the Viet Nam War for closing wounds. As it turns out, I was right about Post-Its but wrong about super glue.

Dr. Harry Coover Jr.

Super glue, or cyanoacrylate adhesive, was discovered in 1942 by Dr. Harry Coover Jr while searching for clear plastic materials for gun sights during WWII; it was a failure because it stuck to everything it touched, including the equipment, test materials, and fingers.

In 1958, while working as an Eastman Kodak researcher, Coover (along with Fred Joyner) recognized its commercial potential and began marketing it to consumers as “Super Glue,” a name that became synonymous with fast-acting adhesives. It’s incredibly useful in industrial and home use for bonding a huge array of materials including plastic, metal, wood, ceramics, and skin.

So how did the Vietnam War get into my brain scramble? During the Vietnam War, spray-form super glue was used as a temporary fix to seal wounds and stabilize injured soldiers before further treatment. At that time, it did not yet have FDA approval for medical use.

Super Glue Uses

Gorilla brand super glue

I don’t know how many other people use cyanoacrylate adhesive on human nails, but uses abound—some more, some less expected. Here are a few of mine.

If you do an online search, you’ll find many lists of uses, from forensic to veterinary. The adhesive market is competitive and diverse, with brands catering to different applications and industries. If you have a particular need—say, to glue plastic—you can find recommendations.

The Chicago Tribune rated the Best Super Glues of 2025. The top three were Gorilla Glue (Best of the Best), Super Glue (Best for the Buck), and Loctite (fastest drying).

Bottom Line: In my opinion, super glue is a household must-have.

THE WORLD OF TEA

I—and perhaps others—associate tea drinking with the British Isles. Way too narrow! India is the world’s largest tea-drinking nation, although the per capita consumption of tea is modest (26 oz per year). Türkiye, with 5lb 8oz of tea consumed per person per year, is the world’s greatest per capita consumer.

According to Wikipedia, after plain water, tea is the most widely consumed drink in the world. According to Tea Bloom, people consume 100 million cups every day. However, Big Heart Tea estimates the number to be closer to three billion cups of tea per day. In any event, in 2023, global tea consumption was more than 14 million pounds

Origins of Tea

Emperor Shen Nong, discoverer of tea

Legend has it that in 2737 BCE, Chinese Emperor Shen Nong discovered tea when leaves from a wild tree blew into his pot of boiling water. He found the flavor refreshing, the beginning of tea’s journey through history. Whether myth or reality, this serendipitous discovery has affected millions of daily routines.

People in ancient East Asia ate tea for hundreds, perhaps thousands, of years before ever drinking it. They would nibble on the leaves raw, add them to soups or greens, or ferment and chew them.

Camellia sinensis tea plant

Tea drinking may have begun in the region of Yunnan, where people originally used it for medicinal purposes. Although people have assumed—and asserted—health benefits throughout history, there is no high-quality evidence showing that drinking tea provides significant benefits other than (possibly) increasing alertness, due to the caffeine in the tea leaves. Caffeine makes up about 3% of tea’s dry weight, which translates to between 30 and 90 milligrams per 8.5 US fl oz cup, depending on the type (black has more caffeine than green or white), brand, and brewing method.

Historians believe that people in Sichuan began boiling tea leaves for a concentrated drink without the addition of other leaves or herbs, producing a bitter, stimulating drink, rather than a medicinal concoction.

Archeologists discovered the earliest physical evidence of tea in 2016 in the mausoleum of Emperor Jing in Xi’an, who died in 141 BCE. Han dynasty emperors drank tea from the genus Camellia as early as the second century BCE.

In ancient China, people pressed tea leaves into bricks for use as currency during trade or as a form of tribute. This practice underscores the value and importance of tea in historical societies. These tea bricks were useful for trading goods, paying taxes, or as dowries.

Tea in Europe

Portuguese priests and merchants introduced tea to Europe during the 16th century. The earliest European reference to tea, written as chiai, came from Delle navigationi e viaggi written by Venetian Giambattista Ramusio in 1545.

During the 17th century, drinking tea became fashionable among the British upper classes. Shortly after, British aristocrats started to plant tea on a large scale in India, where it had previously served only as a medicine.

Garaway’s coffee house in London first sold tea in 1657. Samuel Pepys wrote of tasting tea in his diary in 1660. Catherine of Braganza took the tea-drinking habit to the English court when she married Charles II in 1662. Still, tea was not widely consumed in the British Isles until the 18th century.

British drinkers preferred to add sugar and milk to black tea, and black tea overtook green tea in popularity in the 1720s. In Britain and Ireland, people initially viewed it as a luxury item for special occasions, such as religious festivals, wakes, and domestic work gatherings.

The price in Europe fell steadily during the 19th century, especially after Indian tea began to arrive in large quantities; by the late 19th century, tea had become an everyday beverage for all levels of society.

The popularity of tea played a role in U.S. history: the Tea Act of 1773 provoked the Boston Tea Party that escalated into the American Revolution.

In fact, John Adams called tea a “Traitor’s Drink.” Sentiments like this led to a 10-year boycott of tea altogether. Many American colonists switched to growing and drinking coffee.

Varieties of Tea

There are many types of tea; some have a cooling, slightly bitter, and astringent flavor, while others have profiles that include sweet, nutty, floral, or grassy notes.

Most Camellia sinensis leaves are harvested when the plant is about three to five feet tall. If the growers leave the plant to grow, it can turn into a massive tree that can soar over 50 feet tall!

The term herbal tea refers to drinks not made from Camellia sinensis. They are infusions of fruit, leaves, or other plant parts, such as steeps of rosehip, chamomile, or rooibos. These are not to be confused with tea made from the tea plant.

Darjeeling tea only grows in one specific region of India. The Darjeeling district is about 70 square acres and sits at the base of the Himalayas.

According to legend, British aristocrat and Prime Minister Charles Grey was given tea infused with bergamot oil. He asked merchants to recreate it, and they named the tea “Earl Grey” for the man who loved it so dearly.

Pu-Erh teas stay usable even after decades in storage. Makers of pu-erh press fermented and aged leaves into pucks and shapes that they then wrap and store.

Ludwig Roselius developed the first commercial decaffeination process. He began marketing decaf coffee (Kaffee HAG) in Europe by about 1905 and later in the United States in 1923.

Decaffeinated tea is very popular for those want the taste and feel of tea without the stimulant. To make decaffeinated tea at home, steep your leaves for twenty seconds to one minute. This releases most of the caffeine. Pour out the caffeinated water and fill your teapot or kettle again to re-steep the decaffeinated tea to the desired strength.

Modern Convenience

“Instant tea” (similar to freeze-dried instant coffee ) is a modern alternative to brewed tea. Food scientists developed it in the 1930s, though Nestlé introduced the first commercial product in 1946. Redi-Tea introduced instant iced tea in 1953. Additives such as chai, vanilla, honey or fruit, are popular, as is powdered milk.

During World War II, British and Canadian command issued soldiers an instant tea in their composite ration (“compo”) packs. These blocks of instant tea, powdered milk, and sugar were not always well received!

In 1981, Japanese brewers introduced canned tea ready to drink. PT Sinar Sosro, an Indonesian company, introduced the first bottled tea 1969 with the brand name Teh Botol Sosro (or Sosro bottled tea). In 1983, Swiss-based Bischofszell Food Ltd. was the first company to bottle iced tea on an industrial scale.

Tea Culture

It is nearly impossible to overstate the importance of tea as a cultural phenomenon. Many countries with a history of growing or importing tea have developed social patterns around drinking it. Turkish merchants share glasses of çay before starting any serious deal-making. Traditional Chinese doctors often prescribe precise infusions of 茶 for a variety of ailments. Vietnamese couples serve trà sen to older family members as part of a Đám Hỏi wedding ceremony. Tibetans will drink up to 60 cups of yak butter bho jha every day.

British Teatime

When we think of teatime, what comes to mind is likely some variation of British afternoon tea. It comes in many shapes and forms, from an afternoon cup of a favorite blend to a formal event with multiple teas, scones, clotted cream, and finger sandwiches. Afternoon tea —also known as “low tea” for the low coffee tables it’s served on — was enjoyed by royalty and the upper-class. 

Social events like parties and dances grew out of the afternoon teatime custom. People invite friends and neighbors for socializing, music, and dancing, followed by sharing afternoon tea.

In Britain, high tea is very different. Common among the lower classes, it is a hearty evening meal served at a high dining table with a pot of tea.

Japanese Teaism

In the 1500s, the tea master Sen no Rikyu perfected the Japanese tea ceremony, elevating it to an art form. In Japanese, the word “teaism” is more accurate than the English “ceremony”, as it more closely captures the religious and philosophical elements of the occasion.

Zen Buddhism and Shinto Buddhism both influenced teaism, as seen in the architecture of teahouses and ritual purification steps.

The most formal style of chaji occurs around noon during cool weather. Guests and hosts follow a precise order of steps, including reflecting on a scroll or flower arrangement, eating special foods, purifying and arranging utensils, and passing a cup of matcha.

Making Tea

2000 tea leaves make one pound of tea—or 200-250 cups. There are a variety of methods for steeping and enjoying a hot brew.

The process starts with heating water, often in a dedicated kettle or samovar. Connoisseurs will take care to heat the water to precise temperatures for optimal brewing. White tea steeps best in water 160-180 degrees; black tea steeps best in water 200-212 degrees.

By measuring loose tea leaves individually for use, the “brewer” has maximum control over strength and flavor. Strainers, tea balls, tea presses, filtered teapots, and infusion bags prevent loose leaves from floating in the tea and over-brewing. Too inconvenient?

Tea bags and balls hold leaves while allowing for hot water to circulate. Most conventional teabags are made with materials that don’t decompose, but it is possible to find reusable or biodegradable bags. Tea balls are small metal or porcelain containers for holding leaves while infusing, with a spring or latch holding them closed.

On August 26, 1901, the two Wisconsin women, Roberta C. Lawson and Mary Molaren, filed a patent (US723287) for a unique (at the time) ‘Tea-Leaf Holder’ that is remarkably similar to the modern tea bag. Statistics show that as many as 98 percent of Americans and 96 percent of U.K. residents use tea bags. Tea-drinkers also use them extensively in India, Japan, and elsewhere.

Tea Sets

Russian tea samovar and podstakannik
Russian samovar and podstakannik

A tea set typically includes everything needed for steeping and serving hot tea. At a minimum, this may just be a teapot and a cup.

  • A full British set will include several cups and saucers, a sugar bowl, a milk jug, and a few teaspoons.
  • A Turkish set will include a çaydanlık pot, ince belli glasses, spoons, and a bowl for beet sugar cubes.
  • A Russian set will include a samovar, containers for hot and cold water, several bowls for a variety of sweeteners, spoons, and either porcelain cups and saucers or glasses with metal podstakannik holders.

Some teapots include a mesh or strainer on the inside of the spout to catch soggy leaves before they can tumble into the cup.

no-drip tea pots
If you follow me on Facebook, you already know that these 3 teapots are the best no-drip pots ever. 

Interesting Tea Facts

The word tea itself has multiple meanings: beverage, leaves, plant, social event, evening meal, slang for marijuana, and slang for personal or secret information.

Tasseography—or tasseomancy—is a fortune-telling method that a trained practitioner can perform with tea leaves, coffee grounds, and even wine sediment. A “Highland Seer” wrote the book Reading Tea Leaves in 1881. Tasseographers still use it as a guide today.

According to the Tea Association of the U.S.A. (yes, that’s a thing), 84% of the tea consumed in America is black—of that, 75-85% is served as iced tea. 

Although tea originates in the southern regions of China, today it grows anywhere with the correct climate. There are plantations in India, Sri Lanka, the Republic of Georgia, Kenya, Vietnam, Türkiye, and South Africa. It’s even grown in South Carolina and Hawaii!

Furniture and Accessories

The popularity of tea and its role in social functions has led to the creation of specialized paraphernalia to aid in its enjoyment. In English, we refer to a whole class of towels, spoons, carts, and tables specifically by their association with brewed Camellia sinensis leaves.

Tea caddy

In the 18th century, most tea caddies had a lock, the key kept by the lady of the house to prevent theft. Early artisans made these containers of various materials, including blue and white porcelain from China. Later caddies were typically made of wood adorned with brass, ivory, tortoiseshell, and other elements. 

A tea chest can mean a synonym for a caddy. Alternatively, it can refer to a square wooden case, usually lined with sheet lead or tin, used for shipping the dried leaves.

Tea pets

Tea pets are tiny clay statues that have no soul when you purchase them. Over time, as you pour tea — which has a soul — over them, the soul within your tea transfers to your pet.

A teapoy is a piece of furniture, originally a three-legged table. The name originally came from the Hindi word tīn, meaning three, and the Persian word pāi, meaning foot. By association with the word “tea” in the middle of the 19th century, it is also used to describe a table with a container for tea, or a table for holding a tea service. In the 19th century, the word was also sometimes applied to a large porcelain or earthenware tea caddy, and more frequently to the small bottles, often of enamel, which fitted into receptacles in the caddy and actually contained the tea.

Bottom Line: January is National Hot Tea Month. There’s more to tea than you probably knew!

DICTIONARY LOVE

Given the season, I was tempted to write about New Year’s resolutions. Not wanting to repeat myself, I reviewed my blogs from 12/30/16, 1/1/19, and 1/3/23. And then I realized that all sorts of commentators and media were talking about how many people make resolutions (between 34 and 62%), who makes them (younger people), how many people keep them (fewer than half), what the resolutions are about (fitness, finances)… I decided I have nothing to add this year.

In the meantime, the Wall Street Journal recently (Dec. 20-21, 2025 issue) had a long article about the Merriam-Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary. I venture to suggest that when asked about a dictionary, that’s the one most people think of. For generations, a copy has been a go-to gift for high school and college graduates, as well as miscellaneous other gift-giving occasions. In the late 1980s, Merriam-Webster’s Collegiate Dictionary was on the Times best-seller list for 155 consecutive weeks; 57 million copies were sold, a number believed to be second only to sales of the Bible in the U.S.

Merriam Webster Collegiate Dictionary

And people hold on to them! My husband still has one from his last year as an English professor, the 9th edition, published in 1983.

Partying with half a dozen other writers, I asked whether they still use physical dictionaries. NO! Not one. They all look online (as do I). Still, physical dictionaries haven’t yet gone the way of the dodo bird: last year Merriam-Webster sold nearly 1.5 million physical dictionaries (according to that WSJ article).

I love dictionaries, so I researched their history for this blog. They have a fascinating (to me) history that reflects the evolution of language, literacy, and knowledge organization.

Dictionary History

Dictionaries have had a long run!

Pages from the Erya, in the Chinese Dictionary Museum

The earliest surviving monolingual dictionary is the Eyra, which Chinese scholars wrote in the 3rd century BCE. Translators have interpreted the title characters (爾雅) as “Progress Towards Correctness”, “The Semantic Approximator”, and “Approaching Elegance.”

Modern dictionaries evolved from early glossaries and bilingual word lists. Renaissance glossaries and later works like the Catholicon (1287) and Covarrubias’s Tesoro de la lengua (1611) paved the way for modern single-language dictionaries and standardized national lexicons. By the 18th–19th centuries, publishers were offering monolingual dictionaries, including comprehensive English dictionaries.

Early Beginnings

The earliest known attempts at word lists and glossaries date back to ancient Mesopotamia (around 2300 BCE). Scribes learning languages created Sumerian and Akkadian bilingual word lists.

Classical Antiquity

In ancient Greece and Rome, scholars compiled lists of difficult or rare words, often to assist with understanding classical texts. For example, Philo of Byblos and Aelius Donatus created early glossaries. Philitas of Cos wrote Disorderly Words to help his fellow Greeks decipher odd and archaic vocabulary, particularly in the works of Homer.

Medieval Period

During the Middle Ages, dictionaries were often glossaries—lists of difficult words with explanations—in Latin and vernacular languages. They were primarily tools for scholars and clergy.

The rise of vernacular languages in Europe led to more dictionaries aimed at explaining Latin terms or translating between Latin and local languages.

Renaissance and Early Modern Era

Close-up from the 1755 edition of Samuel Johnson’s Dictionary of the English Language

The invention of the printing press in the 15th century revolutionized dictionary production.

In 1604, Robert Cawdrey published the first English dictionary, titled A Table Alphabeticall, containing about 2,500 words with simple definitions.

The 17th and 18th centuries saw the rise of more comprehensive dictionaries. Samuel Johnson’s Dictionary of the English Language (1755) was a landmark work, combining definitions with literary quotations and shaping English lexicography.

19th and 20th Centuries: The Oxford English Dictionary

Once upon a time, when asked what one book I’d want to have if stranded on a desert island, I didn’t even have to consider: “The Oxford English Dictionary, not in the condensed form.”

Actually, that answer could be challenged. I have the compact edition, and even that is two big, fat volumes (boxed, with a magnifying glass). The hard cover edition had 20 volumes, 21,728 pages. The OED is now being completely revised to produce an updated Third Edition.

What appealed to me was both the comprehensiveness of the listings and the inclusion of the history of each word.

The 19th century brought the creation of historical and etymological dictionaries, like the Oxford English Dictionary (OED) I discussed above, which began publication in 1884 and aimed to document the history and development of every English word!

Dictionary Types

Dictionaries expanded to cover specialized fields, slang, and dialects. The 20th century saw the rise of bilingual dictionaries and learner’s dictionaries to support language education and globalization.

I started collecting dictionaries when I started writing fiction. I have shelf after shelf filled with them!

When one thinks of specialized dictionaries, medicine and law come immediately to mind. But for my purposes, I needed the common language.—i.e., slang. To seem authentic—real, if you will—the thoughts and dialogue of characters are crucial.

One of my favorite dictionaries is Talk the Talk: The Slang of 65 American Subcultures. Groups from stamp collectors to people living in Antarctica, from Birders to con artists, to Wiccans, witches, and neo-pagans are included. It’s a fun read even if you aren’t a writer!

If you are a fan of Patrick O’Brien, Aubrey and Maturin series, there’s a dictionary for you!
I’ve published half a dozen short stories set during the American Civil War, and the Civil War Dictionary was invaluable for everything from what women’s underwear was called to what prostitutes were called, to … whatever.
I even have a dictionary of South African English—which I’ve never actually used but love having!

The Dictionary in the Digital Age

The late 20th and early 21st centuries introduced electronic dictionaries and online databases, making dictionaries more accessible and interactive. Platforms like Merriam-Webster Online and the OED Online offer constantly updated entries and multimedia content.

Artificial intelligence and corpus linguistics have enabled dictionaries to be more descriptive and data-driven, reflecting real-world language use. But when looking for a word, a meaning, or a spelling online, that is what you will get: that one word. By contrast, according to the WSJ article cited above, “One of the pleasures of having a dictionary at hand is the serendipity of idle browsing—of progressing from ‘crankshaft’ to ‘cranky’ to ‘cranbog’…” Online, you don’t get more than you ask for.

Bottom Line: For some of us, online searches will never replace physical dictionaries in our hearts.

WHAT PEOPLE WILL DO FOR MONEY

It’s the time of year when many—most?—people would like to have a bit more money. Or a lot. Besides taking another job, selling their souls to corporate overlords, hustling for more tips, or panhandling, what are people doing?

There’s Always Selling Something

Lots of people sell online, everything from “pre-owned” clothes to collectibles of all sorts (think depression era glass or carved wooden pigs).

Selling Parts of Yourself

Of course, your first thought would probably be for selling items you’ve found or made. But you might start a bit closer to home.

  • More personally, if you have good hair, you could sell that. Estimates suggest that several million people worldwide participate in hair selling annually, but exact numbers vary. But the human hair market, which includes hair extensions, wigs, and other hair products, is a multi-billion-dollar industry.
  • Really personally, you could sell spare organs.
    • Although selling human organs is illegal in the U.S. and most other countries, some estimates indicate that trafficked organs account for up to 10% of organ transplants performed around the world.
    • Kidneys, lungs, and liver come to mind. Humans can live with one kidney or one lung, and a healthy liver will regenerate from the part remaining after a transplant.
  • Sell your plasma ($150-700/mo according to online sources).
  • Sell sperm to a sperm bank
  • “Rent” your womb as a surrogate mother
  • With no medical intervention, you could sell feet or hand images, posting pictures on sites like Instafeet or Feetify

Turn Trash into Treasure

It’s amazing what people throw away!

  • Haunt the neighborhood on trash collecting day or visit dumps. Salvage sellable items, clean, and resell.
  • If you are artsy/crafty – turn found items into works of art and sell them at local fairs, etc.
  • If you garden, sell plant cuttings, cullings, and seedlings.
  • Collect cans and bottles and sell to a recycling center.
  • Sell cockroaches or crickets to pet stores as food for larger animals.
  • Check the change in your pocket for rare coins that might be worth more than their face value.

Essentially, if you have it, you can (try to) sell it.

Sell Your Services

If you don’t have things to sell, you might be able to sell your time and skills.

Talent Required

  • This time of year, help people decorate for Christmas (or do the whole job).
  • Help with course materials via OneClass
  • Participate in online mock juries
  • Beta test video games, phone apps, and computer programs
  • Act as a Notary Public (for spending cash, it won’t pay your bills)
  • Substitute as a teacher at local schools
  • If you are mechanically inclined, you could hire out your handyman services
  • Create websites for independent businesses or freelancers
  • Be a photographer or videographer for weddings and parties
  • Work temporary gigs for events, such as catering, DJ-ing, set-up and break-down, or security
  • Be a professional hugger
    • In CA and NYC, you could earn over $150/hour!
  • Phone sex operator
  • Model for art classes
  • Referee seasonal sports—if you have the skill and stamina! (And the patience to stand up to upset players or coaches)

Time Required

Even if you feel you have no marketable skills, there are still ways to make a quick buck.

  • Be a “line sitter
    • When there’s a high demand ticketed event, go to the venue and offer to wait in line for someone—for whatever fee the traffic will bear.
  • Take drugs!
    • Participate in paid clinical trials for pharmaceuticals or other treatments. If you’re relatively healthy and not taking med/drugs, you can qualify for some drug trials. You’ll have to review them carefully because some things you just don’t want to mess with while others are relatively similar to drug trials.
  • Volunteer for testing medical devices/smartwatches that measure blood pressure and/or blood oxygen.
    • Each session generally lasts 60-90 minutes, could pay hundreds of dollars, and only requires giving a small amount of blood. Participation is typically limited to 2x per month.
  • Dog/cat/house sitting
    • If you stay at peoples’ houses with their animals, you could be paid more, up to $80/night.
  • Take paid surveys
  • Remove lice from peoples’ heads
  • Move things to/from storage units
  • Garbage can cleaning—or other basic but gross jobs
  • Deliver local magazine monthly (could be $150-250/month)
  • Sign your kids up for research studies (e.g., get paid for letting a researcher watch your kids play)

…Other

And then there are a few options that I just couldn’t categorize:

  • Watch for class-action lawsuits and join when you qualify.
  • Rent out your backyard for campers.
  • Found a new religion and demand tithes from all your new followers.
  • Compete in interesting competitions (eating, writing, shooting basketballs, etc.) for cash prizes.
  • Create community/local nude calendar. Lakeview, OR, did this to raise money for snow removal (Wall Street Journal,12/11/25).
  • Sell tickets to your wedding. (Personally, I’d label this incredibly rude, gross, and financially stupid!) YouTube had a viral posting about a couple who invited 350 people to their wedding at a cost of $333 per person—including family! Only 60 people attended.
  • Closely related: The Wall Street Journal (again,12/9/25) featured an article, The Lavish Weddings Where Crashers Are Welcome—for a Fee. Apparently there is a website that invites tourists (or others) to attend an Indian wedding, $150 for one day, $250 for multi-day celebrations.

Check out this Buzzfeed article for more suggestions and personal stories.

Bottom Line: Where there’s a will, there’s a way! Search online for novel ideas that suit your situation and inclinations.

THE DOWN SIDE OF GIVING

I know it’s counter to the expectations of the season. Besides Giving Tuesday, many organizations (including our local CBS news) are in the midst of a month of giving. Culturally, giving is a good thing. But it isn’t purely positive.

Giving Opens Floodgates

My motivation for writing this blog is the deluge of text messages, emails, and snail mails asking for money. I’m steeped in the downside of giving: once you are on a list, you are doomed.

The organization or cause you originally donated to seeks more frequent and/or bigger donations.

Selling mailing lists can generate lots of revenue. Once an organization has a list of reliable donors, they often sell that list to other entities. Donors are then inundated with with requests for further donations to entirely new organizations!

Donations to political candidates trigger requests from other candidates in the same party. These can come from all over the country. Supporting a candidate at the national level opens you up to solicitations from state and local candidates—not necessarily your own state or locale!

Some solicitations come with a “free gift” to create guilt or an obligation to donate. Often these gifts are of poor quality or completely useless to the recipient. One organization sent me so many free gifts that I doubted how much of my donation was actually going to forward the stated mission. I stopped donating to that group altogether.

Responding to a mail solicitation can trigger follow-up phone calls as well.

Giving ’til It Hurts!

Once, I volunteered my time and professional know-how for a set number of hours on set days per week. That morphed into requests for special events and monetary contributions. I doubt I’m alone in this experience.

I’m currently voluntarily teaching a memoir class a few times per year. Fortunately, I enjoy it. There is considerable social pressure to continue doing so.

When I searched this topic online, I found that giving can have negative effects on the donor, including financial strain and instability, high tax burdens, loss of personal wealth, emotional guilt and anxiety, burnout and compassion fatigue, and neglect of personal relationships, potentially weakening social cohesion and exacerbating inequality if generosity creates donor-recipient hierarchies. In short, I learned that there are more serious drawbacks than the irritation factor that started me down this path.

Further Reading

Here are a few sources you might wish to pursue.

The Other Side of Charity: 10 Shocking Negative Effects of Generosity Unforeseen Consequences of Giving by Richard Wilson

The Dark Side of Being a Giver: Discussing Martyrdom, Low Self-Worth, and Giving to Get by Shoba Sreenivasan and Linda Weinberger, posted March 18, 2019

There’s A Downside To Giving (And It Has Nothing To Do With You) by Darrah Brustein
This article discusses problems giving can do to relationships, and how to avoid them.

Philanthropic Harm: How “Doing Good” Can Go Bad by Michael Moody
This article includes the following sections:

  • Malfeasance, Corruption, Fraud
  • Diversion of Resources
  • Reinforcing the Status Quo
  • Favoring Philanthropists’ Needs Over Recipients’
  • Teleopathy
  • Lack of Transparency
  • Faulty or Inefficient Strategy
  • Faulty or Inefficient Implementation
  • Lack of Measurable Impact
  • Unintended Consequences
  • Short-Term Band-Aids
  • Dependency
  • Paternalism and Cultural Insensitivity
  • Risks for Philanthropists
  • Tainted Donors and Tainted Money

According to Charities Aid Foundation 2024 World Giving Index, 76% of U.S. adults helped a stranger, 61% donated money, and 39% volunteered. This gave the U.S. a World Giving Index Score rank of #6 for 2024 (after Indonesia, Kenya, Singapore, the Republic of Gambia, and Nigeria, and just ahead of Ukraine). In short, there’s a lot of giving out there.

Bottom Line: I’d never suggest that people not give, only urge that they consider the unintended side effects.

AI: FRIEND OR FOE?

Whatever your answer, the importance of Artificial Intelligence can’t be overstated. AI is all over print and other media, here to stay. Are we benefitting or suffering?

True confession: I started off feeling negative about AI for purposes other than searching for information.

AI for Prolific Writing

One of my favorite forms of escapist reading is Pride and Prejudice fan fiction. Recently I read several books by Rachelle Ayala. Pretty entertaining. I usually gave her four out of five stars. I marveled at her productivity. When I looked at all her publications, Kindle came up with 715 titles! I discovered multiple books in multiple series. And then I saw these two titles: Love by the Prompt: A Romance Writer’s Guide to AI-Powered Writing; and An AI Writer’s Journal: From 0 to 70000 in 14 Days.

My knee-jerk reaction was to vow never to read another of her books. In my opinion, her practices were equivalent to plagiarism: claiming another’s thoughts or ideas as one’s own. I didn’t actually read those two books, but I investigated a bit more. Ayala says, “I am a romance author of over 140 books with two additional pen-names ‘Clare Chu’ (Humor) and ‘Bella Vex’ (Horror).” It turns out that Rachelle Ayala is an award-winning USA Today bestselling author of contemporary romance and romantic suspense. Should I eschew better-than-average entertainment because I don’t approve of the method?

And going forward, how will I know?

Risks of AI Writing Careers

Looking into AI and writing a bit more, I read a recent Wall Street Journal article (11/22/25) profiling two sisters, an auto mechanic and a struggling writer. AI isn’t threatening the former career. Of the latter, “In moments of doubt, Sophia has considered a fallback plan, which was to get certification in AI prompt writing.” But she might need a fallback for her fallback: that once-hot job has been rendered obsolete as AI has become better at understanding poorly written prompts. She concluded, “I’m not at the point yet where I’m willing to compromise writing full-time.”

In truth, writers can use AI in ways I (for one) consider legitimate.

A brief search online turned up the following suggestions for ways a writer can use AI, allowing more time for the creative aspects of writing:

  • Automate tasks like research and data analysis
  • Improve grammar and spelling
  • Generate word choices
  • Draft and enhance content
  • Translate audio to text or vice versa for accessibility
  • Brainstorm creative ideas
  • Create personalized or supplementary material such as video content or internal communications

Personally, I doubt AI will ever generate works comparable to Shakespeare (or Jane Austen). But as the father of the daughters profiled in the WSJ article put it, “At my company, they say you won’t be replaced by AI, but you might be replaced by someone who knows AI better than you do.”

Although my focus is writing—creative writing—I’m aware of ways teachers can use AI to personalize teaching plans. In addition, according to my reading, AI can enhance healthcare delivery, improve disaster response, enable predictive analytics for government services to be more efficient, assist in cancer screening, expand access to social welfare processes, and empower underrepresented communities by addressing social challenges and driving targeted, data-driven solutions.

Downsides of AI

So why not embrace AI with open arms?

The process of training AI programs involves feeding massive amounts of data into the system. Companies have procured that data through copyright infringements, privacy violations, and wholesale scraping of the data of people who may not even be aware of it. Many authors are now including warnings at the end of their books that they do not consent to the use of their work to train AI. Every result from an AI program, including silly videos, audio deepfakes, AI therapists, machine-generated music, insurance claim denials, and medical screening, ultimately relies on the input of humans, whether they consented or not.

AI programs also require vast amounts of computing power, which in turn requires huge data centers, staggering amounts of energy, and massive cooling systems. A single question asked in ChatGPT uses ten times as much electricity as the same question asked in a web browser. Communities near data centers often face water shortages, skyrocketing electricity costs, constant industrial noise, and pollution endangering the health of local residents.

Google Data Center, Council Bluffs Iowa

Research also indicates that, while students who rely excessively on AI may “get the right answer” more quickly, they are less likely to remember the rationale over time. I fear over-dependence on AI will dull human problem-solving skills, critical thinking, and creativity.

And my AI generated response to this query: “Possible negatives of AI include bias in algorithms due to human input, high implementation costs and potential degradation over time, unemployment and workforce disruption, reliability and accuracy concerns, misalignment with use cases leading to ineffective outputs, lowered information integrity, risk of misleading results, and broader societal harms if systems are unfair or unsafe.”

Bottom Line: AI is friend AND foe.

GIVING THANKS AROUND THE WORLD (Part 2: Europe)

Giving thanks is everywhere, even though others call their thanksgiving by other names, and celebrate on different dates. This blog will focus on our European cousins.

(Check out last week’s blog on how people in Asia celebrate giving thanks!)

United Kingdom: Harvest Home

Baking, canning, and flower contests at a Harvest Home celebration in Chew Stoke

The UK celebrates a harvest festival, also known as Harvest Home. People, particularly in rural villages, celebrate on the Sunday closest to the Harvest Moon – usually in late September or early October. The tradition dates back centuries, with origins in pagan rituals, when communities gathered to celebrate the successful bringing in of crops. In the past, the timing of the festival varied depending on when the harvest was ready, with the whole community, including children, helping until the last load of crops arrived.

“In 1957, there was 120lb cheddar cheese to be consumed and a 6’ x 2’ harvest loaf, which was borne aloft on the shoulders of six men” in the Somerset village of East Brent.

Modern Harvest Home festivals feature a feast of autumn crops and vegetables, as well as food donations and church services, keeping alive the spirit of gratitude for the season’s bounty.

Some say both US and Canadian Thanksgiving have roots in the United Kingdom’s annual Harvest Home. At the least, this tradition has to have influenced the origins of Thanksgiving in both the US and Canada, brought over by British immigrants.

Netherlands: Dankdag

Before leaving for the New World, English immigrants lived and worked for several years in the Netherlands, in the town of Leiden. About 40% of the Mayflower passengers spent over a decade (1609 to 1620) living in this Dutch city before heading to Massachusetts. Some even believe the Pilgrims’ first Thanksgiving was inspired by Leiden’s annual celebration of breaking the Spanish siege in 1574.

Harvest table at a church in Van Halland

They brought many of their customs to their new (temporary) home, including the practice of expressing gratitude for a successful fall harvest.

While Thanksgiving isn’t an official holiday, many restaurants offer special meals. Dankdag is still celebrated in Leiden. Citizens enjoy an American-style Thanksgiving dinner after a church service at Pieterskerk. The city of Leiden also honors its historic ties by holding non-denominational church services at Pieterskerk every fourth Thursday of November!

And if they live near Beschuitsteeg, they can explore the Leiden American Pilgrim Museum as a tribute to their long friendship with the pilgrims.

Germany: Erntedankfest

Like Britain and many other European countries, Germany celebrates the first major harvest of the season with a big festival. Erntedankfest (“thanks for the harvest fest”) doesn’t have an official date. This religious holiday often takes place on the first Sunday in October, which is often also the first Sunday following Michaelistag (Michaelmas) on September 29. Different places celebrate the occasion on various dates in September and October, but it typically takes place between early October and late November depending on the region, sometimes coinciding with Martinstag (St. Martin’s Day).

Erntedankfest decorations at a church in Oberösterreich

Erntedankfest is a community affair, often held outdoors or in churches rather than homes. It’s a lively gathering filled with parades, music, and tables laden with such hearty fare as die Masthühnchen (fattened-up chickens) or der Kapaun (castrated roosters), geese, hearty stews, fresh-baked bread, and local brews. There are plenty of traditional foods and seasonal produce. Colorful decorations like cornucopias are typical. There are also church services to begin the celebration, with lantern parades planned for the evening.

Though rural areas tend to take the harvest festival more literally, many churches in German cities also join in on the celebration, giving thanks for the good fortune their congregations experienced that year. During a typical Erntedankfest, celebrants carry an Erntekrone (“harvest crown”) of grains, fruit and flowers to the church in a solemn procession.

Though it’s more common in rural areas, many Germans observe Erntedankfest through televised events, connecting to their agricultural roots from afar.

Other German-speaking countries, such as Austria and Switzerland, also celebrate Erntedankfest to observe the autumn harvest. Erntedankfest traditions include parades, church services, concerts, fireworks, and a harvest feast, where turkey (Truthahn) is a holiday dinner favorite.

Poland: Dożynki

Harvest wreath parade in Milówka

The Polish harvest festival, Dożynki, dates back to the 16th century when landowners shared the bounty of the harvest with the land’s workers. The historical celebration included dancing, feasting, and crafting harvest wreaths to ensure fertility for the next harvest.

The word Dożynki literally means “last sheaves.”

Today, the festival still includes feasts and harvest wreaths. Modern Dożynki celebrations incorporate religious elements, including a pilgrimage to Jasna Góra in Częstochowa. Many Polish celebrants dress in traditional outfits as they share in the harvest.

Thanksgiving in Rome

Italians do not have a national holiday that celebrates American Thanksgiving.  However, plenty of Italians toast the holiday with their expat friends and family at a home or restaurant. 

Not a modern depiction of Cerealia, but the sentiment is the same!

In addition, Rome celebrates a harvest festival known as Cerealia. This honors Ceres, the goddess of agriculture, grain, and the love a mother bears for her child.  (FYI: In ancient Greek religion Demeter is the goddess of the harvest and agriculture, presiding over crops, grains, food, and the fertility of the earth. She also appeared as a goddess of health, birth, and marriage.) Cerealia occurs every year on October 4th. Roman custom is to present fruits, grains, and animals to the goddess in appreciation. Parades and music are also part of the celebration.

Bottom Line: Celebrations of giving thanks in Europe share roots of giving thanks for food, much like our Thanksgiving.